Subspace meeting

Join us for our Monthly Subspace Discussion Group !!!

We will be meeting on Tuesday, February 24, 2009
from 7-9 PM at Edges.
We hope to see you there!!!

SX invites all the lovely giving halves of the Power Exchange to join us monthly for "SUBSPACE", our real time discussion group for bottoms, subs, slaves, switches in bottom mode, and those who relate to this mindset. We share stories, ask for advice or suggestions, and hope to create a free safe space for people to verbalize their joys, fears, concerns, and get to network with other people in the scene. Find friends, mentors, and SUPPORT.

Boys and Girls are welcome to come, no cost, for an evening of discussion about WIITWD every month.

Join us all the LAST TUESDAY of every month, 7-9 PM At EDGES, the dungeon for the South Bay (www.edges.biz).

Contact SouthernCross_Ca@sbcglobal.net or dracosgyrl@yahoo.com and come out to join us!

RSVP to dracosgyrl@yahoo.com

UPCOMING DATES:

February 24th

March 31st

April 28th

May 26th

Welcome to the Archives!

Welcome to the ARCHIVES of Southern Cross!

We are constantly working on making the fun never end, and that includes keeping those old great posts up for our members and friends.

We hope you find the interesting, wild, wonderful moments from our past as much fun as we did living them.

SX.. archiving our fun since Summer 05
At the cutting edge of information,
transparency and
FUN!

Subspace

Join us for Subspace !!!

We will be meeting on Tuesday, November 25th, 2008
from 7-9 PM at THE NEW Edges location.
We hope to see you there!!!

SX invites all the lovely giving halves of the Power Exchange to join us monthly for "SUBSPACE", our real time discussion group for bottoms, subs, slaves, switches in bottom mode, and those who relate to this mindset. We share stories, ask for advice or suggestions, and hope to create a free safe space for people to verbalize their joys, fears, concerns, and get to network with other people in the scene. Find friends, mentors, and SUPPORT.

Boys and Girls are welcome to come, no cost, for an evening of discussion about WIITWD every month.

Join us all the LAST TUESDAY of every month, 7-9 PM At EDGES, the dungeon for the South Bay (www.edges.biz).

Contact SouthernCross_Ca@sbcglobal.net or dracosgyrl@yahoo.com and come out to join us!

RSVP to dracosgyrl@yahoo.com

UPCOMING DATES:

November 25th

December 30th

January 27th 2009

4th Annual Cookie Exchange

Saturday, Dec 6th, EDGES 7PM sharp (munch starts at Edges at 6pm, Play time starts at 8PM).

Cookies are coming!

Every year, those crazy usual suspects make up TONS of cookies-- and everyone trades! The more you bring, the more you take home.
Ok-- so the way it works is that you bring at least 3 dozen of any one kind of cookies--- we put them all on a table, and each person goes around picking up *other* cookies 3-4 at a time....

Yes, we will accept *candy* too-- but only the good home make kind (FUDGE!). No M&M's kinda stuff:)
DO remember to bring your cookies in NICE display containers-- pretty plates, lovely trays.

Also bring some tupperware or other covered containers to take home all the GOODIES you will get!
This is the BEST way to enjoy the yummies of the year without spending HOURS in your kitchen. Just bake 1 or 2 batches of 3 dozen cookies and come share!

** Do you need to bring cookies to get cookies? YES! We love you-- and every year we manage to make a few folks happy who show up empty handed-- but please, BRING some goodies.
So get on an apron, grease yourself up, and wander into a hot room with a rolling pin and some sugar.
THEN get into the kitchen and make some COOKIES!!!!

Catch a fire

ThanksGiving Greetings!

Yep, us kinky Pilgrims are riding high and having FUN!!!!!

We are enjoying COCO's every FRIDAY... and hope your holidays are as interesting as Les's....


WAV files at:http://tvquotes.bravepages.com/bombed.wav

"For those of you who've just tuned in, the Pinedale Shopping Center has Just Been Bombed"

"While the senator denied he was intoxicated, he could not explain his nudity".

(radio blurp from opening of WKRP).








Times may change, but nothing really changes, yet every year as the end of November approaches, i think of Les Nessman.


Les, our intrepid radio newsman, reports on the WKRP "Turkey Drop" at the local radio station, a promotion idea of the station's slightly inept but well meaning owner, Mr. Carlson.

Carson and the station's sales rep, Herb Tarlek, have a "surprise" for everyone

"All it's gonna take is your complete co-operation, absolute secrecy, and twenty live turkeys "
and have taken a helicopter over the local shopping center.

Les Nessman, 3 time winner of the Buckeye Silver Sow News award for outstanding farm journalism, has been dispatched to report -without knowing what they have planned.

" It's a helicopter, and it's coming this way. It's flying something behind it, I can't quite make it out, it's a large banner and it says, uh - Happy... Thaaaaanksss... giving! ... From... W.... ... K... ... R... ... P!!"

The ensuing chaos as the turkeys are released ~ "No parachutes yet. Can't be skydivers... I can't tell just yet what they are, but - Oh my God, Johnny, they're turkeys!! Johnny, can you get this? Oh, they're plunging to the earth right in front of our eyes! One just went through the windshield of a parked car! Oh, the humanity! The turkeys are hitting the ground like sacks of wet cement! Not since the Hindenberg tragedy has there been anything like this! " ~ is impossible to ignore.


Station disc jokey Dr. Johnny Fever responds to Les's on air reports~
"Les? Are you there? Les isn't there. (composing himself) Thanks for that on-the-spot report, Les, and for those of you who just tuned in, the Pinedale Shopping Mall has just been bombed with live turkeys. Film at eleven. "

Poor Les, animal over, farm reporter, and rather 'quirky' person, refuses to stop broadcasting, even in the ensuig panic.Returning to the station, he gets to try explaining things:
Venus: "Les! Are you okay?"
Les: "I don't know. A man and his two children tried to kill me. After the turkeys hit the pavement, the crowd kind of scattered, but some of them tried to attack me! I had to jam myself into a phone booth! Then Mr Carlson had the helicopter land in the middle of the parking lot. I guess he thought he could save the day by turning the rest of the turkeys loose. It gets pretty strange after that."



It gets pretty strange AFTER THAT???

"As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly."

Arthur Carlson's explanation for the disaster.

EDGES FETISH PROM 2008

Edges Fetish Prom 2008
November 15, Saturday

Who doesn't wish to enjoy the thrill of prom night along with their fetish
and kink interests twisted through? Grab a date or come stag to this re-make
of Prom: A night under the stars with your favorite kinky people, the sex
you wish you'd had on the dance floor, and the spanking you knew you needed
for coming home late. A fetish/kink event open to all!

* Make your own corsage and boutonnières: have them put on your tux/dress or
SKIN. Needle nurses will be on-hand to help.
* Vote for your favorite Fetish Prom Queen and King
* Get your Fetish Prom goblets
* Get your Fetish Prom photos solo or with your partner

Lady Cynthia and Yoyo will be surprising us with a lovely prom spread of
catered food including virgin and spiked punch! Wear your actual prom
outfit, a fetish themed outfit, or pick a time period to enjoy for the
evening.

When: 8:00 PM to 1:00 AM; Doors close at 11PM
Cost: $25 for members, $30 for guests

Get tickets for cheaper online: edges.ticketleap.com/
Advanced ticket cost: $20 for members, $25 for guests

EDGES Orientation from 730PM until 8PM, Open Edges Party for members and
their guests.

Seeking DMs and cleanup in exchange for entrance to the event:
volunteer@edges.biz
www.edges.biz

4th Annual Cookie Exchange

Cookies are coming!

Every year, those crazy usual suspects make up TONS of cookies-- and everyone trades! The more you bring, the more you take home.
Ok-- so the way it works is that you bring at least 3 dozen of any one kind of cookies--- we put them all on a table, and each person goes around picking up *other* cookies 3-4 at a time....

Yes, we will accept *candy* too-- but only the good home make kind (FUDGE!). No M&M's kinda stuff:)
DO remember to bring your cookies in NICE display containers-- pretty plates, lovely trays.

Also bring some tupperware or other covered containers to take home all the GOODIES you will get!
This is the BEST way to enjoy the yummies of the year without spending HOURS in your kitchen. Just bake 1 or 2 batches of 3 dozen cookies and come share!

** Do you need to bring cookies to get cookies? YES! We love you-- and every year we manage to make a few folks happy who show up empty handed-- but please, BRING some goodies.

So get on an apron, grease yourself up, and wander into a hot room with a rolling pin and some sugar.
THEN get into the kitchen and make some COOKIES!!!!

The Usual Suspects of the Friday Munch have MOVED





to a permanent home
COCO's Restaurant
1206 Oakmead Parkway Sunnyvale

NEW MUNCH SITE NEEDED

Dear Friends...

Well, we were warned by baker's Square Corporate that they were in bankruptcy courts (they were VERY good to us at Corporate) and yes, the doors of the restaurant closed without warning October 23d... luckily, we have had 2 great weeks of munching at EDGES.
NOW, we have to find a new home.

We have taken a basic poll-- and the first thing everyone said was "ABD" ANYWHERE but Dennys.

We have heard you-- and would rather NOT have a Friday munch than have unhappy folks.
Yes, the Hobees would love to have us back-- but many would like to move north a bit and have fries, pies, and ice cream back in the menu.

SO.
It's up to YOU!

*We need a restaurant that is open until at least 9pm.
*They must have a separate closed back room (preferably at NO extra charge).
*American cuisine (hopefully with breakfast any time)... international dishes on the menu are great-- but we need hamburgers, salads, and the pasta bowl sort of stuff too.
*Separate checks. i have NEVER once had a group check not turn into a nightmare.
*Central location with decent parking.

THAT being said, we are more than happy to move to Sunnyvale or even Mountain View if the place works for the majority. SX doesn't do things for US-- we do them for YOU, so what YOU guys bring to the table is first and foremost in importance.

The next munch is 11-7.... can we find a place?
Let me know by phone if you get an idea... (write me if you don't already have a bathroom near you with that phone number clearly printed on the wall).

HUGS!!!!!!
shadow--- The Kinky Den Mom.

Friends

New People

Hi there new person!

Welcome to the kink world.

Southern Cross hosts a weekly Friday munch, and we want YOU to know that being new, shy, and unsure about all this stuff is not only OK, but that we have ALL been there.

We all meet starting at 6pm until at least 9, but MOST of the "Usual Suspects" are not around early in the evening.

Want to come and get comfortable with just our hosts and maybe 1 or 2 others? Show up right at 6pm.
Want to get more information before you come in? Feel free to write us at SouthernCross-Ca@SBCGlobal.net and ask away! Each of us at SX is very aware of how much the public scene can intimidate folks, and we hope we can bridge some of that discomfort. Welcome home.

http://southerncrossmunch.blogspot.com/

Munch Information

Come have some FUN!!!!

MIDNIGHT MOVIE CLASSIC:Check this weeks MUNCH announcement on your local kink lists, or the link below.

Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment's, catch a movie right next door, or just let down your hair before your commute home from the San Jose Bay Area.

SOUTHERN CROSS PRESENTS "THE USUAL SUSPECTS" MUNCH

Join us 6-8pm+ at Hobee's in the Pruneyard Friday evenings.

Although we have a private room, please dress in family friendly street attire, no toys or "play" on site, and respect our servers and fellow patrons.

Your hosts: Strong Eagle, shadow, Allie,

Miss Courtney,rosered,

Steve V.,Sandra, elfin & Miss Vicki.

Folsom...

Well, the Southern Cross Usual Suspects have traditionally hosted our munch at the local hotel this time of year so that everyone attending but wanting to munch could do so.

This year, there just isn't the money for that, so we found the next best thing... Brown Bag Munch and a Free Play time 6-8PM at EDGES Friday Sept. 26th.

Hosted by Southern Cross, you do NOT have to be a member to come and have some fun, meet some pervs, eat your snackies (or Taco Bell... or whatever), grab a cane and have a little warm up fun before the official 8pm start time!

The Usual Suspects hope that everyone wondering "what the hell am i having for dinner" Friday will enjoy getting to meet folks in a clean wicked fun setting right by the SJ Airport and minutes from everything and everyone!

We will have DM's on duty, and some other interesting bits to come. Play safe now, ya hear!

Halloween 2008

The munch pulled up stakes last month and made the move to Baker's Square- ice cream, FRIES, and those marvellous deserts!



Follow the map to our new spot 6-9 pm every Friday. We have the back room mostly to ourselves these days and a great server that keeps everything full while we get LOUD!



Dinners are excellent, salads are large, and the carnivors amongst us seem to be happy!

Sidebar October

EVENTS

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

5th ANNUAL SX PUMPKIN CARVING CONTEST Friday, October 24, 2008 6-8pm www.southern-cross.org

SUBSPACE hosted by Southern Cross Tuesday, October 28, 2008 7-9pm www.southern-cross.org

HALLOWEEN WHORE PARTY Saturday, November 1, 2008 8pm-1am www.edges.biz

ALIEN ABDUCTION presented by Uncle Abdul Tuesday, November 11, 2008 7:00 - 10:00pm www.edges.biz www.uncleabdul.com

PEDESTAL- FEM DOMME PARTY Saturday, November 29, 2008 8:00 pm-1am www.edges.biz

Clean up at Edges

Monday, November 3 2008
6:00pm - 9:00pm

Cleaning Corp

Who: You! (Hopefully)
What: Dungeon Cleaning!
Why: To Support Your Local Place of Perversion of Course! And gain free private rental hours.

Come on down the 1st Monday and the 3rd Saturday of every month and get some cleaning done. While You are at it, you can earn Private Rental Hours, or Edges party admissions. Come for an hour, two hours, or the whole thing, any help is appreciated! Please RSVP to domestic@edges.biz if possible, but walk-in help is always welcome!

4th Annual Pumpkin carving

Well we had some great entries... but the pics went BLEH!
Here's a sneak peek of what we got done:

7-10 Pm Tues, Nov 11th

Tuesday, November 11, 2008, 7 to 10 PM at - at the brand Edges - in San Jose, California --

Unc'will be presenting for Southern Cross:

Alien Abduction

Unc, demonstrating through the use of an Alien Abduction scene, will be showing how to adapt a fantasy scene using sensory distortions into a realistic, HOT, yet safe scene. And you didn't even need a flying saucer. Anal probes were optional.

From the EDGES Calendar :

Does the thought of being tied helpless to an examination table while having your various bodily orifices probed by alien creatures from another world turn you on? Would you really want to see X-Files' Sculley being fondled by a Gray? Are your really a reincarnation of Ming the Merciless? Do you get all wet at the sound of Theremin music? Then don't miss this truly unique class of Unc'.

Unc', demonstrating through the use of an Alien Abduction scene, will show how to use perceptual distortions to do this HOT fantasy scene while doing it with realism and safety. And you won't need a flying saucer (anal probes would be optional, however). He'll examine how to identify the fantasy's elements that provide the turn-on and how to adapt them into a safe scene with only the available props, furniture, lighting, sounds, and--of course--the elements of your imagination. You really don't need to go to Babylon 5 to do such a scene.

Whether alien abduction scenes are really for you or if you just want to learn how to perceptual distortions in a scene, then this class is for you. The truth is out there.

Uncle Abdul (or Unc') is a Professional Electrical Engineer with over 25 years of experience in the BDSM Community. In 1998 he wrote the book on electrical play, Juice� Electricity for Pleasure and Pain, which has been acknowledged and acclaimed as the best book written on the description and the safety issues in E-Stim and E-Play. Unc' also has written articles, been interviewed for different publications, and has given presentations on this and many other subjects. He also does consulting in the e-play/stim field.

Unc's web page is HERE!
Unc's BLOG IS HERE

Halloween Whore!: Edges Halloween Party

HALLOWEEN WHORE PARTY!!!

Advanced Tickets: $20 members, $25 guests
Purchase here: https://edges.ticketleap.com


Tickets at the door: $25 members, $30 guests
Saturday, November 1st, 2008
8pm until 1am, doors close at 11pm
events@edges.biz for more information

This Halloween, get your tricks and treats at Edges, the South Bay's premier
dungeon. With games, contests, and a parade of delectible delights, the
dungeon will be just that: a ghoulish collection of haunting frights and
sexy sights. Dress up as your favorite evil character, or maybe sweet and
innocent is more your style, and bring your bag of kinks to the playspace.
Join the other creatures of the night in celebrating the debauchery of the
season!

Awards for the sexiest, scariest and funniest costumes.

A large scale community scene will be taking place at 10pm so join us early!
A number of dirty and nasty disobedients will be captured throughout the
evening: sentenced to their crime's punishment by the queen.

Leeches and blood letting, neck hanging, burning of the witch, tar and
feathering: and more!



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Earlier that evening...
MUNCH & MIX: First Saturday of the month, 6-8pm

Open to all that have an interest in alternative sexuality.
A pre-party event to socialize, eat, enjoy and meet others. Share kinky war
stories, meet new people, introduce yourself to the community. This is a
potluck so you need to bring a dish that will feed at least 8 people.

$5 entrance for everyone with their dish and get $5 off your party cost

The Usual Haunts Are At It Again

SURVEY OF ELECTRIC PLAY

by Uncle Abdul

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

7:00 - 10:00pm

www.uncleabdul.com

7 to 10 PM - at the brand Edges - in San Jose, California --

Electrical Play - A Survey

An introduction to Electrical Play--the safety aspects, the toys, the techniques, and how to combine them all. This will be your one-stop class for electrical play: for newbies or advanced players, for tops or bottoms, for those even "just curious" about electrical play. This is a not to be missed class.Uncle Abdul (or Unc') is a Professional Electrical Engineer with over 25 years of experience in the BDSM Community. In 1998 he wrote the book on electrical play, "Juice Electricity for Pleasure and Pain", which has been acknowledged and acclaimed as the best book written on the description and the safety issues in E-Stim and E-Play. Unc' also has written articles, been interviewed for different publications, and has given presentations on this and many other subjects. He also does consulting in the e-play/stim field.

$15.00 at the door gets you in to a great night of information, meet and greet, and hands on fun

******

The event went GREAT, and with 25 people in attendance, Unk was able to not only go over all the ways that electricty can be played with, explain all the units, pass around the gear, and even do demo's on folks, but we had lots of time for questions and answers as well.
Looking forward to his next class in Nov!

The Usual Haunts Are At It Again

FETLIFE

Come on over to the latest place Southern Cross has planted a little fun and games-- FETLIFE!
Owner John Baku has created a great site with lots of chances for people to get to know each other and learn, chat and talk, find answers and make new friends.

September SLUT OF THE MONTH!

We are proud to announce that we have decided on a winner for the September SOTM (pronounced 'soddom') award.

The Usual Suspects extend a warm hand (do you know where it's been?) and a big round of applause to SHELLY.

Wanna know how to participate? Contact Trollup on Fetlife or Livejournal
Congrats to our friend Shelly- your plaque is now on order and will be added soon!

DUNGEON MUNCH!

Well, the Southern Cross Usual Suspects have traditionally hosted our munch at the local hotel this time of year so that everyone attending but wanting to munch could do so.

This year, there just isn't the money for that, so we found the next best thing... Brown Bag Munch and a Free Play time 6-8PM at EDGES Friday Sept. 26th.

Hosted by Southern Cross, you do NOT have to be a member to come and have some fun, meet some pervs, eat your snackies (or Taco Bell... or whatever), grab a cane and have a little warm up fun before the official 8pm start time!

The Usual Suspects hope that everyone wondering "what the hell am i having for dinner" Friday will enjoy getting to meet folks in a clean wicked fun setting right by the SJ Airport and minutes from everything and everyone!

We will have DM's on duty, and some other interesting bits to come. Play safe now, ya hear!

WELCOME HOME!!!!

You are Cordially Invited to Edges’ Volunteer Appreciation Party
Saturday, August 20, 2008
8:00 pm until Everyone Drops
Volunteers by Donation – Guests $15

Volunteers will receive free raffle tickets in their Goodie Bags.
Everyone can earn more tickets by getting a body part painted, taking part in the undress the construction worker relay, being the first at the party to initiate different parts of the dungeon, spanking the party planner, or winning the best toy belt prize. You can also purchase additional tickets for $1 each. The raffle will take place at 10:30, so make sure to have all your tickets collected and turned in by then.

This is our BIG Thank You to Everyone who Helped get the Space up and Ready to Play.

EDGES PARTY : FOLSOM WEEKEND Saturday, September 27, 2008

LEATHER FUCK: BRINGING SEX BACK TO THE DUNGEON

8pm until we drop, doors close at 11pm

$40 at the door Purchase advance tickets for $15 off here:
http://xrl.us/LeatherFuck



Not just for beating on skin: Edges brings sex back into the dungeon! With all its kinky activities and delectable eye candy: we want to see to it that you, and all of your twisted and wicked friends are given the ambiance and flavor to get wild. Take advantage of the additional mattresses scattered throughout, images, sex toys and accouterments adorning the space: cum fill it with KINKY FUCKING If you aren't sure you want to participate, feel free to allow your inner voyeur an opportunity to get out and roam, lapping at the displays.

Edges Silicon Valley Play Space: Private Rentals, Play Parties, Classes http://www.edges.biz 408-496-1132

News and info

Previous incarnation of Miss Courtney?






In other news:

(Cross posted from one of a bazillion other blogs):
That plaque and the monthly SOTM (now and forever after pronounced "Soddom") award is generating a lot of buzz.
i have no idea how this happens.
ALL we were doing was sitting around one night discussing what stuff we get into, and i was getting the usual razzing about a scene i started in the pool. It was supposed to be resistance- which i would normally be ROTTEN at winning, i am so outta shape-- but in this case a complete lubing of sunscreen made me an actual fair challenge.
The boy got rather excited about it... and eventually picked me up and carried me into the house for something with bondage where He KNEW He could win. And DURING that time, Miss C was sitting at the other end of the house, talking trash, havin' fun- and said my name loud enough that i was able to discern it from my play induced high- and yell BACK down the hall (none of which i remember- but hey, that's PLAY right?).
So that was where this 'slut of the month' thing started. We didn't consider it seriously until 2 weeks LATER when the Usual Suspects were sitting around at the Wednesday munch and a post that Miss C's new beau put up on HIS live journal was the hot topic.
TALK about stroke material!
And.. due to some of the more esoteric things in it that SHE doesn't normally do- we said she had 'won' for August.

One thing leads to another.

Now conflictdswitch has mentioned that at the end of the year, the 12 winners should have a 'slut off'' of some kind for the title "Slut of the YEAR".
i'm game! Having a "slut off" where the 12 monthly winners get ONE NIGHT to vie for best scene of the night would be AMAZING.
Sort of like "American Graffiti for BDSM".
The Usual Suspects will be pleased.

i have been notified that i should stipulate that a participant cannot be slutty with THEIR OWN married partner- any OTHER married person is fine. Also, a few folks have asked how to be identified as a Southern Cross person, since we do NOT charge people to have fun or hang out and hence, no membership.

Just show up! We have a regular munch every Friday, we go to the movies en masse, make field trips, and post on the YAHOO list- which is as close to membership as we get. Join the Yahoo list and let us know who you are- enjoy our revelry on the weekends.
Invite us for tea.
Get to know most of us at Miss Vicki's Wednesday night munch in Sunnyvale if you can't make the Friday foray.
We are Southern Cross, and whenever someone wants to know WHO is doing something outrageous and fun, you can be sure, it's one of the Usual Suspects.

HI there new person

Hi there new person!

Welcome to the kink world.

Southern Cross hosts a weekly Friday munch, and we want YOU to know that being new, shy, and unsure about all this stuff is not only OK, but that we have ALL been there.

We all meet starting at 6pm until at least 9, but MOST of the "Usual Suspects" are not around early in the evening.

Want to come and get comfortable with just our hosts and maybe 1 or 2 others? Show up right at 6pm.
Want to get more information before you come in? Feel free to write us at SouthernCross-Ca@SBCGlobal.net and ask away! Each of us at SX is very aware of how much the public scene can intimidate folks, and we hope we can bridge some of that discomfort. Welcome home.

http://southerncrossmunch.blogspot.com/
www.thefridaymunch.blogspot.com

NEW URLS

Having a problem remembering us?
www.SouthernCrossCa.blogspot.com is LONG!
(That's HERE).

There's this DRAGON that got lost one night... and made a few new paths!

Try THESE urls:

www.southern-cross.org

www.southerncrossblog.org

www.southernXblog.org

Side roads, back tracks and kite paths-- just one more service we offer!

Fries and Pies are BACK!

Come have some FUN!!!!

SOUTHERN CROSS PRESENTS
"THE USUAL SUSPECTS" MUNCH

Join us 6-9pm at our NEW location

GREAT private room in BAKERS SQUARE
5055 Almaden Expy, San Jose at Highway 85 & Almaden Expressway

No minimums or room fee per person, TONS of parking, Britannia Arms Pub for carousing and easy access to EDGES on Hi 85 to 87 North.

Although we have a private room, please dress in family friendly street attire, no toys or "play" on site, and respect our servers and fellow patrons.

Directions:
http://www.mapquest.com/maps/5055+Almaden+Expressway++San+JOse+ca/

ADDRESS: 5055 Almaden Expy San Jose, CA 95118-2051

Heading South From 280/880 San Jose- Head south on 880 towards Los Gatos, Take 85 EAST towards Gilroy. Exit Almaden Expressway go left at exit and left at light under freeway. U turn 2nd light to Bakers Square.
OR
East on 280 towards downtown San Jose, take 87 south (right) and 2nd exit to Almaden Expressway south. Cross Branham, Cross Cherry, Bakers Square is on your right.
OR
From 101 go South to 85 west (Mountain View), take the Almaden Expressway Exit, go right at the exit bottom, U turn to Bakers Square.

Your hosts: Strong Eagle, shadow, Allie,

Miss Courtney, rosered, Elfin,

Sandra, Steve V., Heather, Tina & Miss Vicki.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Southern_Cross/

SLUT of the MONTH

This summer, the SX booty call babes and boys were hanging out looking at our various games and dates, enterprises and public parties, and we decided that we needed to acknowledge some of the great players of our area.

So, the Southern Cross regulars listen to who's doing what, jump on the wagon at social events, and poll the players to find out WHO is the most outrageous amongst us each month.

The SX Slut of the Month Award (It's motto : "I never resist anything but temptation" Oscar Wilde) will proudly hang at EDGES in the social area.

Come hang out with the SX gang, and get to know some of the most fucked up folks that still inhale air. We are so proud of it we now give out awards.

MUNCH!@!!

The munch pulled up stakes last month and made the move to Baker's Square- ice cream, FRIES, and those marvellous deserts!



Follow the map to our new spot 6-9 pm every Friday. We have the back room mostly to ourselves these days and a great server that keeps everything full while we get LOUD!



Dinners are excellent, salads are large, and the carnivors amongst us seem to be happy!

DALLAS is HOT

NLA-Dallas Announces Beyond Vanilla XVIII (BVXVIII)


NLA-Dallas is pleased to announce Beyond Vanilla XVIII. This annual event will beheld September 26 through September 28 at the Sterling Hotel, in Dallas, Texas. Ms. Twisted will be the keynote speaker and be conducting workshops throughout the weekend.

Complete details and on-line registration can be found at the Beyond Vanilla website.

Beyond Vanilla is an educational and social weekend devoted to BDSM techniques and D/s relationships. Workshops geared towards novice and intermediate individuals are intermingled with social opportunities and lots of entertainment.

Beyond Vanilla is proud to host this year's National Leather Association Annual General Meeting. For more information please visit the NLA-I website.This year will be the 22nd Anniversary of the NLA-International. The meeting will have guest speakers from organizations such as NCSF,Sexual Freedom Network, and Leather Archives and Museum and more. The NLA-International awards will be given out this year as well and will encompass the Man and Woman of the Year, Chapter of the Year,Publications Awards and the Lifetime Achievement award winner will present a Key note address. Please join them as they celebrate anniversary and diversity.

Weekend registration is $75.00through July 15 and then rises to $99.00. Registration at the door will be $110.00. Registered guests receive entry to all of the workshops andan event run pin. Commemorative T-Shirts and tickets for the Saturday Dinner Keynote are also available. Our Keynote address, offered by Ms.Twisted, will be an event not to be missed.

Volunteers are needed throughout the weekend and anyone agreeing to volunteer will receive a $30.00 rebate after completion of volunteer hours on Sunday.

Play party passes will only be on sale at the Registration Desk at the event. Registered guests and NLA-Dallas member may purchase tickets,but quantities are limited so be sure to shop early.

The Sterling Hotel has a special room rate of $71.00 plus tax. Contact the hotel directly at 214-634-8550 and mention that you are attending Beyond Vanilla XVIII to obtain this rate.

Beyond Vanilla XVIII will also feature:

*Vendor Mart, featuring kinky toys, leather goods and clothes as well asother items, will be open to the members of the public at least 18years old.
* A Silent Auction to benefit Bryan's House will be held throughout the weekend.
*The International puppy and Trainer Conference (IPTC) will offerworkshops and demonstrations for all those who love those "human"puppies. Registration for IPTC is included for all registered guests.
*The 4th Annual boy patrick Memorial Teeter-Totter-a-Thon, a marathon teeter-totter ride organized to raise money for Bryan's House. This annual event is a highlight of Beyond Vanilla and has raised over$4,000 to date. Anyone can help raise funds for this great charity, oneup-and-down at a time.
* A Whip Lounge – A comfortable indoor environment for whip enthusiasts to gather to talk whips, exchange tips, relax in a casual atmosphere and crack off a few.

We hope to see all our old friends and lots of new friends for this exciting and educational weekend. Be sure to sign-up early to take advantage of the discount rates.

Please feel free to cross-post to appropriate groups and lists.

BAKERS SQUARE ROCKS!!!

The SX munch moved tonight to Bakers Square's back room at the Almaden Expressway/ 85 location.

It was FABULOUS!
We have the whole back room, NO ROOM FEE, and wait staff that are GREAT!
Kinky? The 20+ folks that came on down to have a bite with us laughed and yelled and whooped--- and we have a happy restaurant.







6-9 pm, with time to stay until the MIDNIGHT closing, EVERY FRIDAY the SX gang of Usual Suspects will be feeding and playing, laughing and loving with all our friends, and all the folks we haven't met yet.




Parking galore. THE DOLLAR STORE. FRIES.
PIES!!!!!!!!!



Please come join us anytime you are in the neighborhood. We love to laugh and hope YOU have fun with us.

Fries and Pies are Back

Come have some FUN!!!!

SOUTHERN CROSS PRESENTS
"THE USUAL SUSPECTS" MUNCH

Join us 6-9pm at our NEW location

GREAT private room in BAKERS SQUARE
5055 Almaden Expy, San Jose at Highway 85 & Almaden Expressway

No minimums or room fee per person, TONS of parking, Britannia Arms Pub for carousing and easy access to EDGES on Hi 85 to 87 North.

Although we have a private room, please dress in family friendly street attire, no toys or "play" on site, and respect our servers and fellow patrons.

Directions:
http://www.mapquest.com/maps/5055+Almaden+Expressway++San+JOse+ca/

ADDRESS: 5055 Almaden Expy San Jose, CA 95118-2051

Heading South From 280/880 San Jose- Head south on 880 towards Los Gatos, Take 85 EAST towards Gilroy. Exit Almaden Expressway go left at exit and left at light under freeway. U turn 2nd light to Bakers Square.
OR
East on 280 towards downtown San Jose, take 87 south (right) and 2nd exit to Almaden Expressway south. Cross Branham, Cross Cherry, Bakers Square is on your right.
OR
From 101 go South to 85 west (Mountain View), take the Almaden Expressway Exit, go right at the exit bottom, U turn to Bakers Square.

Your hosts: Strong Eagle, shadow, Allie,

Miss Courtney, rosered, Elfin,

Sandra, Steve V. ,heather, Tina & Miss Vicki.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Southern_Cross/

A Message from Ali and Alex

March 29th, this Saturday
EDGES 2nd ANNIVERSARY and we need your help!


The response of people who want to help keep Edges open has been overwhelming. We are humbled and grateful at this outpouring.


There are several parties and fund raisers in the works and you will hear more about them as time passes. For now, Edges is asking all members to increase their level of membership to whatever is affordable. Edges offers memberships at the $100, $500 and $1000 levels. Details of these levels are on the website. Increasing the level of your membership gives Edges funds to either upgrade this space or find a new one, however this sale issue works out.

As the situation is currently uncertain, new or upgraded memberships will now carry this promise. In the unhappy event that Edges does close for more than 6 months, 50% of the value of your increased membership purchased during this support drive will be refunded to you.


If you are not able to increase the level of your membership please do try to come to parties and fund raisers. We will continue to work to make all events fun and exciting!

Edges is now celebrating it’s second anniversary. We believe that with support from the community Edges will flourish and we will work very hard to make this a reality. We sincerely appreciate your support.

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Visit our Bio Page and list of talent at http://sxeventbios.blogspot.com/

MORE Evil UPdates!

OK, you keep coming up with great ideas-- so we take them and RUN!

Want to have fun with the crucifiction of the Witch? We have rotten fruits and veggies for ya!
Want to enjoy the scene with a few friends? There WILL BE a flogging circle under the crucifixion.

Want to have something hot to bid on at auction time?
How about getting to watch Miss Courtney being suspended in mid air?????
How about the chance to help get her down????


Ready for our guest talent?
John will be beating your cute behinds..
Michael will be our GUEST SUBMISSIVE MALE for you folks with a need to be mean!
Des will be returning with NEEDLE PLAY.
MISS VICKI will be there to make you squirm!
Miss Courtney- the QUEEN of FLOGGING- will be making your fantasies come true and wowing the crowd again!
Loyd, that devil with a cane, will be punishing those gutsy enough to donate to the cause.
Uncle Abdul, the Spanish Inquisitioner of all time, will be on hand to send you some SHOCKING good times!
Come on out, have a meal on us (included with admission price), shop the great vendors, watch the strap on jousting (or try it!), grab some Mead, and play, play, PLAY until the pre-show for the AUCTION!!!
WATCH the belly dancers shake the lovely bits for the crowd...
LISTEN to Renaissance Trash Trixie belittle the naves of the past and present
CHEER on our fave bondage model to STRIP for the crowd
and come enjoy the talents of TREASURE as he helps us sell some of the finest goodies to grace an auction block for years!

JULY 5th, we do it all for our local play space. Come enjoy a day and play with your friends.

Gentle Folks-
After a couple of abortive starts, we have the new donation can!
Thank you to KELLY for her hard work and artistic endeavors.

For years, folks have collected Hotel Toiletries, house hold items, women's clothing, children's backpacks, sleeping bags, coats, canned goods, shoes, and a host of other useful items and donated them for the
San Jose Women's Shelter.

It is with great pleasure that Southern Cross announces a new, *streamlined* way to donate your gently used goods and new bath items.

Southern Cross teams with EDGES and *soon* with LEATHER MASTERS to permanently hosts our CHARITY DRIVE BARRELS.

Drop off your donations, and we will make sure they make it to others who can put them to good use.

WE SUPPORT THE SAN JOSE WOMEN'S SHELTER
Ongoing donations taken at EDGES or LEATHER MASTERS San Jose

Click Here for Details
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MORE FOR YOU!

Mark Your Calendars! July 5th, SX is presenting a day and night of fun for all!

New additions!

We have secured the services of one GREAT local supporter and all around KINKY GUY!

The day will unfold with Vendors selling trinkets, floggers, toys, mead, and exciting baubles to delight the eyes, minstrels music to make thy feet dance, and acts wild and strange to amuse and enthrall! The upper dungeon will be open ALL DAY for your play needs, flogging practice, or whipping the wenches to a frenzy!

Come find a book, make merry with thy friends, and possibly partake of the strap on jousting event in the courtyard of the castle.

Grab thy meal of roasted pig and wander over to the castle keep to see the crucifiction of the witch- come join the flagellation circle or torment the bound slave by pelting rotting vine foods!

Bring your needs indoors to negotiate a scene with the Spanish Inquisitioner himself or any of our GUEST TALENT providing needle play and decorative arts, flogging, whips, clothespins, wax play and other sensation games to thrill the soul.

Come gather to encourage our belly dancers as they shimmy and shake for your pleasure. OOH and AHH to the fire breather and sword juggling!

**Special Appearance by That Diva of the Dishpan, Trailer Trash Trixie to perform**

Our Gala Feature at 9PM, the annual Valley Auction Hosted by TREASURE! We have toys of rare quality, fine clothing, books, oils, and an array of strange and unusual items to tempt your lips to bid freely and support our charity recipients.



10 pm- the floors are open to free play for all! The lower dungeon is cleared and the beatings commence in earnest. The Fair stays open till THREE AM!

So come on down to EDGES JULY 5th for that once a year stellar event with an Elizabethan twist!

Come meet the folks

Get the word out

The ongoing project for SX on line is some adverts to get the word out.






We have several good ideas, and hope that if you like them, feel free to copy them and put them up on YOUR blog or web site.






If they make you laugh, great.







If they get you and a friend to come on down and have some fun, so much the better!

















There has never been BDSM like this--- enjoy your life, come play.

lost?

Feeling LOST?

If you can't find it on the RIGHT4

then try here:

http://southerncrossca.blogspot.com/

www.southern-cross.org
www.southerncrossblog.org

www.southernXblog.org

http://southerncrossmunch.blogspot.com/

http://mastscc.blogspot.com/

http://fridaymunch.blogspot.com/

http://thirstforbdsmknowledge.blogspot.com/

http://thoughtsonmsdynamics.blogspot.com/

http://sxsubspace.blogspot.com/

http://sxads.blogspot.com/

http://sxcontracts.blogspot.com/

http://sxart.blogspot.com/

http://shadowseverywhere.blogspot.com/

http://essaysonbdsm.blogspot.com/

http://sxeventbios.blogspot.com/

http://southerncrossarchives.blogspot.com/

http://eaglesaerie.blogspot.com/

http://dungeonrules.blogspot.com/

http://southerncrossbenefits.blogspot.com/

http://sacsx.blogspot.com/

http://bdsmconsultant.blogspot.com/

http://pub3.bravenet.com/calendar/show.php?usernum=200499989 SJ Calendar

http://pub20.bravenet.com/calendar/show.php?usernum=1643460073 Sac Calendar

http://givingthefinger.blogspot.com/

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Southern Cross is a nationally recognized BDSM group that provides public access munches and classes (benefiting our local dungeon), and kinky "Field Trips", for both newbies and old-schoolers alike. We also try to give back to our community by hosting charity events (last year we raised over $5,000.00), public and private BDSM parties, offer scrumptious kinky catering, lead discussion & support groups, and assist in setting up private mentoring.

Our founders and staff each contribute their time, energy, and financial backing without compensation to the idea that public BDSM is a communal effort and we are all 'family'. We are a free group with no membership or dues. Founded Jan 2004, we enter our 5th year focused on supporting our local dungeon, running permanent collections for charity, supporting other kink groups, both locally and nationally - and continuing a great tradition of HAVING FUN!

Munch Information for YOU

Munch Information

It's very important to Southern Cross that we collaborate and cooperate with each other in the BDSM lifestyle to encourage synergy and we hope that making our munch available to other groups helps us all.

Come have some FUN!!!!

MIDNIGHT MOVIE CLASSIC:Check this weeks MUNCH announcement on your local kink lists, or the link below.

Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment's, catch a movie right next door, or just let down your hair before your commute home from the San Jose Bay Area.

SOUTHERN CROSS PRESENTS "THE USUAL SUSPECTS" MUNCH

Join us 6-8pm+ at Hobee's in the Pruneyard Friday evenings.

Every Friday: Stupid human games!

Kinky Jeopardy, Stupid lyrics, Vendor nights, Guess the condoms, What's in Courtney's Bra, pin the tail on your partner and more!

GREAT private room with DOORS! PRIVATE HANDICAPPED ACCESS BATHROOM!!!!

High end American diner food (breakfast all the time)! Plus vegetarian and international dishes. Separate entrance/exit for munchers, no minimums (although we have a *small* room fee and will pass the hat for donations, excess donated to NCSF weekly), tips included on all checks, loads of parking, and options for later entertainment at the mall. Leave 10 min. for parking in the huge lot- it gets busy after 6 but spaces open frequently,or use the large parking structure at the far end of the lot.

Inspired by Tiger Bill and Blondie's First Friday of the Month Stockton munch, Southern Cross BDSM org. hopes to offer another option for locals after the work week and before the play begins.

Although we have a private room, please dress in family friendly street attire, no toys or "play" on site, and respect our servers and fellow patrons.

After the munch: MOVIES Plus Midnight shows AT CAMERA 7

www.cameracinemas.com
Pruneyard stores and services include Barnes and Noble Books, Hollywood Video, Rock Bottom Brewery, Trader Joe's, The Skin Clinic, Pruneyard Flowers &Gifts, Barbecues Galore, Chabot Gallery Art Center, Sports Fever, WAMU Bank & Terra Nova for your shopping and entertainment pleasure !
www.pruneyardinn.com/shopping.html

Directions:MAPquest link:www.mapquest.com

Address: 1875 South Bascom, Campbell (the rear of Pruneyard Shopping Center).

Heading South From 280/880 San Jose- Head south on 880 towards Los Gatos, exit to Hamilton Avenue. Go east (take off ramp, turn LEFT at light, cross Freeway) to Bascom. Right (south) on Bascom to E. Campbell, right on E. Campbell to 2nd mall driveway on right (at Outback Steakhouse). Turn into parking lot and head straight (shopping center on your right, dark towers on your left). Hobee's is on your right, to the left of the Camera 7 Pruneyard Theater. Heading North from 880 exit right on Hamilton exit, turn right on Hamilton, right on Bascom. Right on E. Campbell to 2nd mall driveway on right (at Outback Steakhouse). Turn into parking lot and head straight (shopping center on your right, dark towers on your left). Hobee's is on your right, to the left of the Camera 7 Pruneyard Theater. There are 2 large black towers at the rear- we are directly across from them in the complex. From 87 take 880 north and follow above. From Downtown San Jose Take Bascom south and follow above directions after passing Hamilton.

Your hosts: Strong Eagle, shadow, Allie,

Miss Courtney,rosered,

Steve V.,Sandra, elfin , heather & Miss Vicki.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Southern_Cross/

Southern Cross is a nationally recognized BDSM group that provides public access munches and classes (benefiting our local dungeon), and kinky "Field Trips", for both newbies and old-schoolers alike. We also try to give back to our community by hosting charity events (last year we raised over $5,000.00), public and private BDSM parties, offer scrumptious kinky catering, lead discussion & support groups, and assist in setting up private mentoring.

Our founders and staff each contribute their time, energy, and financial backing without compensation to the idea that public BDSM is a communal effort and we are all 'family'. We are a free group with no membership or dues. Founded Jan 2004, we enter our 5th year focused on supporting our local dungeon, running permanent collections for charity, supporting all the other kink groups, both locally and nationally - and continuing a great tradition of HAVING FUN!
Want to help? We love volunteers! Come say hi anytime.

SX

March 29th ANNIVERSARY PARTY!

Do it

Field Trip! Jazzzzzzy Night

The Usual Suspects had a special Field Trip Friday the 15th...
and it was HOT!

What: Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society
When: February 15, 2008
Where: Douglas Beach House
311 Mirada Road
Half Moon Bay, California
(on the corner of Mirada & Cortez)
Time: Doors open at 7pm, show starts at 8pm

Our friend, **MARTINI MAX**, played in a jazz quintet that evening.



About the Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society:
The Bach Dancing and Dynamite society hosts weekly jazz shows that have featured the who's who of jazz history for the past 20 years. Artists that have performed there include: Dizzy Gillespie, Duke Ellington, Count Basie, Art Blakey, Jack DeJohnette, Stan Getz, John Pattituci, McCoy Tyner, Vince Garualdi,Earl Hines, Kenny Burrell, Max Roach, Joe Pass, Herb Ellis, FreddieHubbard, David Grisman, and Tommy Flannagan.

Watch some vid of the music that night here.







We thank everyone that showed up... and hope you had FUN!

Donations pouring in

Charity begins with YOU

For years, folks have collected Hotel Toiletries, house hold items, women's clothing, children's backpacks, sleeping bags, coats, canned goods, shoes, and a host of other useful items and donated them for the
San Jose Women's Shelter.

It is with great pleasure that Southern Cross announces a new, *streamlined* way to donate your gently used goods and new bath items.

Southern Cross teams with EDGES and Now with LEATHER MASTERS to permanently hosts our CHARITY DRIVE BARRELS.

Jan 5th-March 1:
Winter warm Drive.
Donate that old sleeping bag, pillows, coats, mufflers, gloves,hats, overshoes, thick sox, umbrellas, as well as the usual ongoing needs.

Donations may be left in the SX/Edges Barrel at Edges. Large items should be discussed with the EDGES staff before being dropped off.

ALL donations go to the SJ Women's Shelter, a non-profit center that is part of the INN Vision program to help those in need.

Southern Cross/ Edges Charity Drive

For years, folks have collected Hotel Toiletries, house hold items, women's clothing, children's backpacks, sleeping bags, coats, canned goods, shoes, and a host of other useful items and donated them for the
San Jose Women's Shelter.

It is with great pleasure that Southern Cross announces a new, *streamlined* way to donate your gently used goods and new bath items.

Coming this week, Southern Cross teams with EDGES and permanently hosts our CHARITY DRIVE BARREL in Edges.

Dec 12th- Jan 15th:
Holiday toy drive!
While collecting coats and hats, cute little shampoos and books, please consider donating a
NEW TOY for a child for Christmas.

Donations may be left in the SX/Edges Barrel at Edges. Large items should be discussed with the EDGES staff before being dropped off.

ALL donations go to the SJ Women's Shelter, a non-profit center that is part of the INN Vision program to help those in need.

Anything

The "Anything to Make the Baby Laugh" munch started out so normal..
and once again spiraled beyond control..
















Ya see, after the Easter goodies (Thanks to Mistress A), one thing led to another and then Courtney had to mention her Live Journal Barking..:



http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=28171958

And we gleefully respond..

Music! Let there be.... oh my lord....

We have found our musicians!

"The Party like it's 1499 Wandering Minstrel Players"

Gathered together from the worlds most elite jails, mental institutions, ghetto landfills, and leprosy colonies, the Minstrel Players have put in no effort at all to work up a period correct musical extravaganza playing intermittently throughout the event for your pleasure (such as it might be).
We suggest you buy lots more mead before paying close attention. It will be for sale by the glass. Big ones.

Please give them a warm hand as they lend atmosphere and fun to our event.

AUCTION 9pm July 5th

We offer some images of what we have up for auction this year, beginning with one of the most famed whip Master's in the USA's donations to us.
Master Viper- Roy- has been one of the most steady and supportive men in the scene, mentored many of us along the M/s path, and a dear friend of SX since our founding in 2004.

Want to order something special? Contact him at: viper_001@sbcglobal.net

We HOPE he will be able to attend and /or vend at this year's fundraiser- but no matter what, He will be well represented with this donation item:

Viper Leatherworks Red Flogger.































Retail value: $240.00, a one of a kind Flogger from the studios of a master craftsman.

Woven in Red, Tan with black accents, this flogger is to be auctioned off July 5th at Edges. BIDS will be taken in advance starting April 1st (when advance tickets to the event begin sales) to Allikitty@yahoo.com or to shadow.

Opening Bid: $100.00
*********

Next up, One of the most supportive businesses in the USA, run by 2 of the best men we know, Leather Masters of San Jose & Dallas is donating several items, beginning with these:









A classic leather fanny pack suitable for men or women- fun, easy, and light weight.

A leather "slapper" style sensation toy, silver capped handle. Frustratingly loud and effective.


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The man who brought you buttfucking T-Rex ALSO knows so much about electricity play that he wrote the book! We will have 3 copies of "Juice" for those of you who love to get a charge out of your relationship.



















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TROY, our local BDSM builder of all things that make us wet, and last years donor of the portable St. Andrews Cross, is once again donating a wooden cross for play!

Similar to this pic (item is NOT the one to be auctioned), a full sized St. Andrews Cross will be up for auction. Clean out the living room for this toy!





**********

http://www.monosome.us

Ryan and Grace will be vending on site as well as entertaining us, and we look forward to their auction donation- it will be great.


















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NobEssence, creators of hand made exotic wood toys is donating (gasp!) TWO insertable Prostate massaging/G-spot grabbing FLOGGERS!

Their web site is currently under rebuilding, but there is a GREAT review of their products
WITH PICS!

at
Dirty Girl Things

Hand crafted locally, completely sealed and guaranteed to be the most fun you can have with your floggers.... come see the DEMO before the LIVE AUCTION AT 9PM

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Canes---

Everything is a Cane according to Strong Eagle (A.K.A. AJ), and this year, we have a lovely set of the nasty stingy things to make yer partner scream. Designed and perfected by the tall bald one (with the patented pointy ends!), these babies will make for memories that will last a while (welts....2 days-3 weeks).

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Meet da folks

Come have some FUN!!!!

Gear down after a long week, meet up with friends for Friday night entertainment's, catch a movie right next door, or just let down your hair before your commute home from the San Jose Bay Area.

SOUTHERN CROSS PRESENTS "THE USUAL SUSPECTS" MUNCH

Join us 6-8pm+ at the rear restaurant by theaters in the Pruneyard Friday evenings.

Every Friday: Stupid human games!

Kinky Jeopardy, Stupid lyrics, Vendor nights, What's my Pervertable, Guess the condoms, What's in Courtney's Bra, pin the tail on your partner and more!

GREAT private room with DOORS! PRIVATE HANDICAPPED ACCESS BATHROOM!!!!

High end American diner food (breakfast all the time)! Plus vegetarian and international dishes. Separate entrance/exit for munchers, no minimums (although we have a *small* room fee and will pass the hat for donations, excess donated to NCSF weekly), tips included on all checks, loads of parking, and options for later entertainment at the mall. Leave 10 min. for parking in the huge lot- it gets busy after 6 but spaces open frequently,or use the large parking structure at the far end of the lot.

Inspired by Tiger Bill and Blondie's First Friday of the Month Stockton munch, Southern Cross BDSM org. hopes to offer another option for locals after the work week and before the play begins.

Although we have a private room, please dress in family friendly street attire, and respect our servers and fellow patrons.

After the munch: MOVIES Plus Midnight shows AT CAMERA 7

www.cameracinemas.com
Pruneyard stores and services include Barnes and Noble Books, Hollywood Video, Rock Bottom Brewery, Trader Joe's, The Skin Clinic, Pruneyard Flowers &Gifts, Barbecues Galore, Chabot Gallery Art Center, Sports Fever, WAMU Bank & Terra Nova for your shopping and entertainment pleasure !
www.pruneyardinn.com/shopping.html

Directions:MAPquest link:www.mapquest.com

Address: 1875 South Bascom, Campbell (the rear of Pruneyard Shopping Center).

Heading South From 280/880 San Jose- Head south on 880 towards Los Gatos, exit to Hamilton Avenue. Go east (take off ramp, turn LEFT at light, cross Freeway) to Bascom. Right (south) on Bascom to E. Campbell, right on E. Campbell to 2nd mall driveway on right (at Outback Steakhouse). Turn into parking lot and head straight (shopping center on your right, dark towers on your left). Hobee's is on your right, to the left of the Camera 7 Pruneyard Theater. Heading North from 880 exit right on Hamilton exit, turn right on Hamilton, right on Bascom. Right on E. Campbell to 2nd mall driveway on right (at Outback Steakhouse). Turn into parking lot and head straight (shopping center on your right, dark towers on your left). Hobee's is on your right, to the left of the Camera 7 Pruneyard Theater. There are 2 large black towers at the rear- we are directly across from them in the complex. From 87 take 880 north and follow above. From Downtown San Jose Take Bascom south and follow above directions after passing Hamilton.

Your hosts: Strong Eagle, shadow, Allie,

Miss Courtney, rosered, Elfin,

Sandra, Steve V., heather & Miss Vicki.

March 29th Anniversary at EDGES! Touch Someth

Southern Cross Presents:

Edges 2nd Anniversary Primal Eroticism









Explore the darker, primal side of yourself
at Edges 2nd Anniversary!


Lose yourself in the beat of the drums, plunge into the elements of fire and water, taste exotic flavors, and experience the primal pleasures of the flesh.

To start the evening off, the pre-party ritual will prepare the space for another year of hot play, and fire spinners will be spinning their magic outside!


This year, the tradition of offering this party to the community gratis continues - all that's needed for entry is a case of water per person. After all, nothing "beats" a cool drink of water after an intense scene, or perhaps poured over the reddened bits of a partner. A frozen bottle rolled over the back after a singletail is always a big hit!


Volunteer shifts are available; please contact misscourtney@ sbcglobal. net if interested.

Vendors are Excited!

Field Trip

Please Join us for another Southern Cross Field Trip !!!




What: Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society
When: February 15, 2008
Where: Douglas Beach House
311 Mirada Road
Half Moon Bay, California
(on the corner of Mirada & Cortez)
CLICK HERE for directions
Time: Doors open at 7pm, show starts at 8pm

Our friend, **MARTINI MAX**, will be playing in a jazz quintet that evening.
Come join us for some great music and good company!
Please do remember that in the Jazz world, our friend has a VANILLA name (yeah- Martini Max is vanilla.... giggle).

***Contact shadow if your interested in carpooling.
Give yourself plenty of drive time as there is quite a lot of
traffic on the route from San Jose to Half Moon Bay ***


About the Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society:

The Bach Dancing and Dynamite society hosts weekly jazz shows that have featured the who's who of jazz history for the past 20 years. Artists that have performed there include: Dizzy Gillespie, Duke Ellington, Count Basie, Art Blakey, Jack DeJohnette, Stan Getz, John Pattituci, McCoy Tyner, Vince Garualdi,Earl Hines, Kenny Burrell, Max Roach, Joe Pass, Herb Ellis, FreddieHubbard, David Grisman, and Tommy Flannagan.

More info at: http://www.bachddsoc.org/

Jazz....baby.

The Usual Suspects had a special Field Trip Friday the 15th...
and it was HOT!

What: Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society
When: February 15, 2008
Where: Douglas Beach House
311 Mirada Road
Half Moon Bay, California
(on the corner of Mirada & Cortez)
Time: Doors open at 7pm, show starts at 8pm

Our friend, **MARTINI MAX**, played in a jazz quintet that evening.



About the Bach Dancing and Dynamite Society:
The Bach Dancing and Dynamite society hosts weekly jazz shows that have featured the who's who of jazz history for the past 20 years. Artists that have performed there include: Dizzy Gillespie, Duke Ellington, Count Basie, Art Blakey, Jack DeJohnette, Stan Getz, John Pattituci, McCoy Tyner, Vince Garualdi,Earl Hines, Kenny Burrell, Max Roach, Joe Pass, Herb Ellis, FreddieHubbard, David Grisman, and Tommy Flannagan.

Watch some vid of the music that night here.







We thank everyone that showed up... and hope you had FUN!

Some of our Vendors....

This year, we have the added joy of inviting local (and not so local) creators of fine arts and crafts to come down and enjoy the fair with us!

Come meet the folks at
HAPPY TAILS















































Electronic mail
General Information: ORDER at FLOGGER dot COM order[@]flogger.com
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We have the LOVELY and exotic woods of NOBESSENCE:








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Joining The Valley Fundraiser this year is Ryan and Grace at:
Monosome






Oils,soaps, jewelry, clothing and postcards for your delights.
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Tip Hat Shows:

We hope our vendors have LOTS of things that tempt you and make you smile, and that all of our attendees have FUN!

Be a Lady-no Waiting!

Edges 2nd Anniversary

Southern Cross Presents:

Edges 2nd Anniversary Primal: The Beast Within



Explore the darker, primal side of yourself
at Edges 2nd Anniversary!


Lose yourself in the beat of the drums, plunge into the elements of fire and water, taste exotic flavors, and experience the primal pleasures of the flesh.

To start the evening off, the pre-party ritual will prepare the space for another year of hot play, and fire spinners will be spinning their magic outside!


This year, the tradition of offering this party to the community gratis continues - all that's needed for entry is a case of water per person. After all, nothing "beats" a cool drink of water after an intense scene, or perhaps poured over the reddened bits of a partner. A frozen bottle rolled over the back after a singletail is always a big hit!


Volunteer shifts are available; please contact misscourtney@ sbcglobal. net if interested.

Mardi Gras Time

This week is when all the fun happens down in Creole Land--- 6 days to Lent, Fat Tuesday is coming...




While You are thinking about how you wish you were there NOW....
consider the NEXT big fun time--- KINK Convention:

You wake at dawn, drawn by the early morning light to enjoy a steaming mug of café au lait and savor an authentic beignet on the hotel balcony. Then journey with friends to forgotten places down side streets and back alleys haunted by the memory of pirates and the ghosts of the city. Take time to dine on Creole cuisine as the setting sun turns the waters of the Mighty Mississippi to fire. Finally, feel yourself drawn into the growing night by the sounds of smoky Southern Jazz as Lestat and his brethren stir once more to drink in the city . . . .

Be part of the magic, the moments, the mystery of Le Carnaval de Cuir.

Educational events, social activities, a vendor fair, multiple in-house and off-site dungeon parties, and an endless array of recreational and dining opportunities—New Orleans and Le Carnaval de Cuir has it all.

Featuring some of the leather community’s most respected leaders and some of it's freshest voices, the Leather Carnival is crafted for the benefit and enrichment of BDSM practitioners and organizations.

Six Tracks

Confirmed Presenters Include (early confirmations only):

Master Z, Founding Member of the Texas Leather Tribe

Ms. Cynthia (aka C. M. Hurt), World-Renown Body Modification Expert

Spend time exploring one of the worlds most exotic and enticing destinations.
Early Bird Activities and Dungeon Parties

Pre- and Post-Conference Tour Options

Plenty of Free Time for Recreational Activities
Stay at the Royal Sonesta, one of the French Quarter’s most alluring and historic hotels.

AAA 4-Diamond Rated

Fantastic Location

Outstanding Amenities


Convenient Meeting Space


Only $149 Per Night - Our rate is the lowest available anywhere, guaranteed, during the event (including Travelocity, Expedia, Orbitz, etc.). So book with us and help us show the hotel that we mean business!
Lose yourself in the Big Easy, a city unlike any other.

Exquisite Dining

Fabulous Shopping

Captivating Music

History Around Every Corner

Exciting Attractions:

Antebellum Mansions

Audubon Zoo

Aquarium of the Americas

Casinos

Ghost Tours

Graveyard Tours

Louisiana Superdome

Mississippi River

National D-Day Museum
Enjoy enough time in the dungeons to keep everyone happy (or miserable).
Six Play Parties (Two Men-Only Events)

One every night from Wednesday through Sunday

On-Site, at The New Orleans Leather Company, and the Hustler Barely Legal Club

A vendor fair to die for.

Fourteen of the nation's top purveyors of kinky gear

Plenty of time to browse and sample the wares

Register now!

Early Bird Registration Now Open (Mail-In Option Offered)

First Discount Rate of $149 Available Through January 22

Your attendance also supports our community beneficiary, the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom!

So . . . . Mark your calendars now. Join us in June.

Visit our website at www.nolakink.com for more information (a few portions still under a little bit of construction). And keep an eye on your inbox for additional details and updates as they happen.

Please feel free to repost this message as often and as widely as you wish.

Universal paths

Having a problem remembering us?

There's this DRAGON that got lost one night... and made a few new paths!

Try THESE urls:

www.southern-cross.org

www.southerncrossblog.org

www.southernXblog.org

Side roads, back tracks and kite paths-- just one more service we offer!

Art From Duckie Night

Miss Vicki's Photo Party

Miss Vicki's Photo Party
Orientation for recently joined members at 7:30pm

Miss Vicki's Photo Party at Edges Friday, February 8, 2008
8pm - 1am: doors close at 11pm
Edges, RSVP for directions
$20 for members, $25 for guests

Get creative! Pull out all the stops!
Bring your liquid latex, decorative needlework, single tail stripes, duct tape and more.
Takes photos of your AMAZING scene inside the dungeon.

Photography area: Only those able to be in photographs allowed. Located in the rear open area. Bring your own camera and capture those special or outrageous scene moments. NO video recording.

Non-photography area: Safe for play away from cameras. The social area and upstairs, front smaller play rooms will be for play WITHOUT photos so even if you can't be in pictures you can still come out and enjoy yourself, insured in discretion.

Edges
Silicon Valley Play Space: Private Rentals, Play Parties, Classes
http://www.edges.biz
408-496-1132

Membership Registrations are not sold at the door of Edges parties!
They can be purchased only at non-play, or educational events, and occasionally by special appointment.

To arrange an appointment please call (408) 496-1132 or write to events@edges.biz

The general public is NOT permitted into Edges events.
This is what keeps us truly private &protects our fun!

Please have your Edges membership card ready to show at the door.
If you are not an Edges member, you must RSVP as the guest of one,
sign a release form and present valid picture ID at the front desk.
All Guests Must RSVP or Arrive With Their Sponsoring Member
Adults 18+ only. No ID=No Entry. No Exceptions.

Please remember the limits of consent and respect.
No cell phones, cameras or recording devices allowed.

All Illegal Drugs/Sex Solicitations are Prohibited On Premises
(nor may anyone solicit/engage in "pay for play" at Edges)
~~

www.TheMunch.org has a whole new look. Come check it out. :)

And be sure to drop in to the Wed munch when you are in the area.

-Vicki-

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Palo Alto / Sunnyvale Munches

Wednesday evenings
8:00 PM until 10 PM (or later)

Where:
Denny's: 408-245-7720
311 S Mathilda Ave
Sunnyvale CA 94086

www.TheMunch.org

HAPPY NEW YEAR

New Kink Convention in New Orleans

You wake at dawn, drawn by the early morning light to enjoy a steaming mug of café au lait and savor an authentic beignet on the hotel balcony. Then journey with friends to forgotten places down side streets and back alleys haunted by the memory of pirates and the ghosts of the city. Take time to dine on Creole cuisine as the setting sun turns the waters of the Mighty Mississippi to fire. Finally, feel yourself drawn into the growing night by the sounds of smoky Southern Jazz as Lestat and his brethren stir once more to drink in the city . . . .

Be part of the magic, the moments, the mystery of Le Carnaval de Cuir.

Educational events, social activities, a vendor fair, multiple in-house and off-site dungeon parties, and an endless array of recreational and dining opportunities—New Orleans and Le Carnaval de Cuir has it all.

Featuring some of the leather community’s most respected leaders and some of it's freshest voices, the Leather Carnival is crafted for the benefit and enrichment of BDSM practitioners and organizations.

Six Tracks

Confirmed Presenters Include (early confirmations only):

Master Z, Founding Member of the Texas Leather Tribe

Ms. Cynthia (aka C. M. Hurt), World-Renown Body Modification Expert

Spend time exploring one of the worlds most exotic and enticing destinations.
Early Bird Activities and Dungeon Parties

Pre- and Post-Conference Tour Options

Plenty of Free Time for Recreational Activities
Stay at the Royal Sonesta, one of the French Quarter’s most alluring and historic hotels.

AAA 4-Diamond Rated

Fantastic Location

Outstanding Amenities


Convenient Meeting Space


Only $149 Per Night - Our rate is the lowest available anywhere, guaranteed, during the event (including Travelocity, Expedia, Orbitz, etc.). So book with us and help us show the hotel that we mean business!
Lose yourself in the Big Easy, a city unlike any other.

Exquisite Dining

Fabulous Shopping

Captivating Music

History Around Every Corner

Exciting Attractions:

Antebellum Mansions

Audubon Zoo

Aquarium of the Americas

Casinos

Ghost Tours

Graveyard Tours

Louisiana Superdome

Mississippi River

National D-Day Museum
Enjoy enough time in the dungeons to keep everyone happy (or miserable).
Six Play Parties (Two Men-Only Events)

One every night from Wednesday through Sunday

On-Site, at The New Orleans Leather Company, and the Hustler Barely Legal Club

A vendor fair to die for.

Fourteen of the nation's top purveyors of kinky gear

Plenty of time to browse and sample the wares

Register now!

Early Bird Registration Now Open (Mail-In Option Offered)

First Discount Rate of $149 Available Through January 22

Your attendance also supports our community beneficiary, the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom!

So . . . . Mark your calendars now. Join us in June.

Visit our website at www.nolakink.com for more information (a few portions still under a little bit of construction). And keep an eye on your inbox for additional details and updates as they happen.

Please feel free to repost this message as often and as widely as you wish.

Munch Madness

Nothing like dinner theater.

Ye Olde Renaissance Faire

Ye Olde Rennaisance Faire!!!

Come gather ye Lords and Ladies of the Court,
thy Jesters and Merrymakers,Wenches and Nobles,
to Edges on July 5th, 2008 from 2pm to 3am
to make merry and be gay!

Southern Cross Hosts the Annual Valley Fundraiser.


One inclusive fee at the gate includes:

Vendor Alley
For those choice delights,
both Kink and Ren Faire related.

The Games
Wild entertainments and joyous games,
including "The Strap On Joust".

The Glen
A hearty meal with drink
in classic Elizabethan Countryside flavors.



The Rack
Medieval torturers to poke and slap, prod
and smack, cane and wax your body delights.

The Dungeon
A fully equipped dungeon for your own
entertainments,to use as you see fit.

The Entertainment
Dancing wenches, belly dancers, jugglers and fire players that delight the senses.


The Charity Event
Our annual charity auction,
featuring hand crafted toys from vendors far and wide,
and featuring an item from the legendary Viper Leatherworks.




Musicians for merriment, and more!

Enter our tent and live the enchantments of Elizabethan life as we never knew it!

***Advanced ticket sales at discounted fare
for thy Lords and Ladies who plan ahead,
beginning April 1st.** *

MAP

Feeling LOST?
We can help....
Our main information and events page is:
http://southerncrossca.blogspot.com/

Our Munch page with event info and pics is:
http://southerncrossmunch.blogspot.com/

Our munch info in easy format is:
http://fridaymunch.blogspot.com/

Subspace meeting groups is:
http://sxsubspace.blogspot.com/

Master /slave information is:
http://thoughtsonmsdynamics.blogspot.com/

General Educational info page is:
http://thirstforbdsmknowledge.blogspot.com/

BDSM Art is shown at:
http://sxart.blogspot.com/

Examples of party and dungeon rules are at:
http://dungeonrules.blogspot.com/

Examples of contracts are at:
http://sxcontracts.blogspot.com/

The Valley Benefit, our yearly function is at:
http://southerncrossbenefits.blogspot.com/

The Guest talent bio's for our events is at:
http://sxeventbios.blogspot.com/

Our Sacramento affiliate group is at:
http://sacsx.blogspot.com/

Strong Eagles page - and cane sales- is at:
http://eaglesaerie.blogspot.com/

Our archives- every post we have had- is at:
http://southerncrossarchives.blogspot.com/

Friday the 18th

Tonight, the group was about usual---
twisted.
We started out with the usual gentle conversation...
and then we mentioned the infamous fake audio of a certain fowl..
Here is is with visuals to help it along:




Meanwhile, the discussion about some of our contacts turned on shadow's working at LM's... it was deemed that she is the "Sorting Hat of Leather Master's" meeting and greeting new folks that come in...
















The group wants to have a SF Zoo outing soon-- we will all attend "pre-maimed" to save time and effort on the animals part.....



We can only cause chaos and panic...
And create situations where you can..

Duck Update !!!

For those of you who missed the party,
here is a little update from the
SX DUCK CHANNEL
... after all we don't want anyone to feel left out.

Thank you to our decorating and catering crew !!!
It is wonderful to have volunteers who are so talented.



Do I need to say anything else about this?




Our mascot? A bad dream?
It's such a cute, evil duck.
I know that ... it is SO wrong, isn't it?

Fun was had by all!!!
Thank you for showing up and supporting
Southern Cross and Edges.

Stay tuned for more fun events like these !!!

Put down the Duckie!!!

While you are hunting the duckie contest and pulling out your quackers, a little blast from the duckie's past:

QUACK QUACK !!!

What: Rubber Ducky Strip Off
When: Saturday, January 12, 2008
Where: Edges
Time: 8pm - 1am, Doors close at 11pm
Cost: $20.00 for members, $25.00 for their guests
Details: Contestants must be wearing 5 articles of clothing
(Suggested attire is a shirt, pants, underwear, socks and shoes)

***TOURNAMENT STYLE STRIP OFF***

Judges: Miss Courtney & Miss Tender

WINNER gets to negotiate a scene with Miss Courtney OR Miss Tender.
LOSERS get to put their clothes back on.


***DON'T FORGET THE
RUBBER DUCKY RAFT RACE***

WINNER GETS A PASS TO EDGES ON MARCH 1.2008



Are you the fastest stripper in town? Come prove it!!!
Maybe you want to beat an unmentioned person's STRIP OFF record?

And if you don't want to strip?
Don't worry, we need bystanders to cheer our strippers on!
You won't want to miss this!!!

P.S Don't forget to bring your own rubber ducky! :)


Later we could make a ducky pyramid (naked of course):


OR

maybe

We will line up in a row for some other ducky naughtiness:



I wonder what sort of delectable delights the catering crew will come up with this time? They will be fit for a duck, I'm sure...

The sky, or in this case, the POND, is the limit!!! Cya Saturday!

QUACK!!!

The History of Rubber Ducks

The exact date of the first rubber duck is unknown, but it is believed to be in the early 1800's. Rubber ducks were first made of hard rubber and did not have a squeak. A traditional rubber duck is yellow. They were first made around the time that other rubber toys were developed.

Rubber ducks became hugely popular in the USA when Ernie (a Muppet from Sesame Street) sang Rubber Duckie. Rubber ducks have achieved iconic status in the USA.

Variations of rubber ducks have developed, including devil ducks, Santa ducks, dead ducks and a range of different coloured rubber ducks.

Rubber ducks have become collectors items. The Guinness World Record for the most rubber ducks is 2,587.

and in Weird Duck News:
http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2007/0422071cho1.html

Avatar Club Invite

You are cordially invited to:

Avatar Club

Los Angeles

25th Anniversary Dinner

Celebration

At

Castaways Restaurant

1250 East Harvard Road

Burbank, CA 91501

On

Saturday February 2, 2008

7pm

Cocktails, Hors d’oeuvres

Erotic Art Show

8pm

Dinner

Entertainment

25years@avatarla.org


AVATAR CLUB LOS ANGELES

25th Anniversary Dinner Celebration

Attire: Formal Club Uniform, Formal Leather, Suits/Sports Jackets. Ladies may wear suitable cocktail attire. No bare chests, bare buttocks, or t-shirts. Individuals with inappropriate attire will not be admitted.

Cost: $55.00 ($5.00 late fee will be added after January 19, 2008) Payment is non-refundable and dinners will only be ordered for paid reservations.

Entree selections:

Castaways Chicken – Stuffed Chicken with Spinach, Sun dried tomatoes, roasted Pasilla Chile and Asadero cheese with a Guajillo Cream Sauce

Grilled Prime Top Sirloin - Charbroiled herb spices with Ground Black Pepper Crust

Grilled Mediterranean Vegetables - A melange of Peppers, Artichokes, Squash and Asparagus,, Portobello Mushrooms with a Balsamic Butter

Dinner includes Salad, Fresh Seasonal Vegetables, Rice or Potatoes, Warm Rolls and Butter, Dessert, Coffee or Tea. Wine will be served with dinner.

***

Make check or money order payable to:

Avatar Club Los Angeles Avatar Club Los Angeles

Email: bravelittletailor@sbcglobal.net C/o: Perry Ash

Phone: (323) 906-0123 3025 Glenhurst Ave #1

(Please leave name and phone number for return call) Los Angeles, CA 90039

To purchase dinner tickets using paypal online, go to WWW.avatarla.org

Click on 25th Anniversary Dinner

Munch Madness

Last weeks munch included madness..

If, when playing with someone and you get your makeup on their underwear, you end up with "The shroud of Fay"-
Tammy Fay.


We decided that we need snorkels for eating girls out-- that Darth Vader sound some of you make while muff diving is disgusing.

The ongoing web addictions with disgusting things (2 girls and a cup, Goatsee), make us thing we just need a goatscene.

Everyone said we needed to see Kermit's reaction to the girls and the cup thing:

***

Several of the ladies have been having issues on line- so we are going to suspend the man clit and just call Rape Gram.. ("Knock knock..... candygram.... pizza delivery...land shark....rape gram").

Thanksgiving pants--- we need more streach.

January 12th at Edges we are having a STRIP OFF! 9pm, tournament style, tennis shoes, sox, pants, underwear, and a shirt-- who can get naked the fastest! First prize- choice of negotiating with either Miss Courtney or the evil Tender.

We still need more cowbell.
When you show someone something kinky, it's being a "Demonstraiteese" (spoken as tease).

Kermit shows Ralph the dog the Video:

*****
The ONGOING discussion about weather a man can successfully shit on his own chest (which is now the standard that Courtney seeks in any earstwhile slaves) rages..
we KNOW we need a "stool scale" to equivilent what kind of product should be produced-- and that it cannot dribble or hit *anything* between the last sphincter and the chest itself.
We still arent sure anyone can really do it-- and considered calling MYTHBUSTERS

We are not , however, sure if they would call back.
*******

Someone wanted to work on a video of Gingerbread men vs. Peeps..however, the FREAKS AT PEEPS beat us to it!

Ya'll outght to see the lightning Santas as well.
Of course, you know what PEEP Spoo is, don't you? SCHPOO!!!!

The ladies discussed the underwire bras they currently wear (at least one is in a G, and 3 are in D+'s...) and all decided that:
1: They do not want to be arrested. The Booking officers will take the bras and issue non-underwire barssiers.
2: The bras are deadly weapons-- you can slice a man's head off (either one) with one of those things.
Doing so while in prison when they do not confiscate your bra is penal failure.

Safety Record

Parties:


No injuries for 627 Days.

Monthly Birthday Party at EDGES

Is it your birthday this month? Do do you love watching someone get a birthday spanking??? Do you love giving a birthday spanking? If you say yes to one or all of these then this Friday is the night for you to come to EDGES for the MONTHLY BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!

Join us on Friday January 4, 2008 at EDGES for the MONTHLY BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!

When: 8:00 PM to 1:00 AM; Doors close at 11PM
Cost: $20 for members

EDGES Orientation (required for new members) from 730PM until 8PM

If your birthday falls in this month, please visit with us for a $5 play party. and join us in celebrating our members! Cake provided, though you're welcome to bring party supplies and help make it your own!

Open Party for members and their guests.
Head over to Edges for some fun! Take a break from your work week and enjoy the dungeon.
Members must RSVP for their guests.

New Years in Southern Cross Land

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

EDGES TOGA Night was a lovely evening.

One of the organizers created some MAGNIFICENT wall posters of the Greek Countryside, and the floors were covered in party balloons (which kept spontaneously popping!).















































And, as always, there was ONE person who just HAD to step over that line:




From all of us real time kinksters of the South Bay, we hope that YOU are having as much fun as WE are. Thank You EDGES for another great evening of play.

HAPPY NEW YEAR

The Party was TOGA- the food was GREEK.

So, we had a nice assortment of possibilities..
starting with stuffed grape leaves... only we used olives, hummus, carmelized onions and artichoke hearts.


































Served with fresh cold grapes and sliced stuffed bread rolls.
They were a hit.









Of course we had cheese and crackers... i think they are mandatory at a party.















And the SX team has pretty much made the spinach dip an artform.















More stuffed grape leaves accompanied with Mozzarella balls, tomatoes (including those adorable little orange pear shaped ones) in a seasoned Greek Oil.



Throw in Elfin's fantastic Foccaccio Bread, and we had major food!










Midnight included Champagne toasts in the magic plastic champagne glasses, and the entire evening we served bubbling Apple Ciders.
Dessert was a delicious home made chocolate mousse with nilla wafers by our own Miss Ali.
i am looking forward to the next one. Catering ideas from the group were *wonderful*.

Happy New Year my Kinky Friends.

Happy New year's

Happy New Years folks! Don't forget about your KINKY NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS! Getting to know Southern Cross was at the top of the list, right?

Come out and get to know Southern Cross! This is a vivacious group of people who welcome all with open arms. Don't be shy now - come out and have some fun with us!

Psst! Details about when and where are below!!!

Charity begins with YOU

For years, folks have collected Hotel Toiletries, house hold items, women's clothing, children's backpacks, sleeping bags, coats, canned goods, shoes, and a host of other useful items and donated them for the
San Jose Women's Shelter.

It is with great pleasure that Southern Cross announces a new, *streamlined* way to donate your gently used goods and new bath items.

Southern Cross teams with EDGES and Now with LEATHER MASTERS to permanently hosts our CHARITY DRIVE BARRELS.

Jan 5th-March 1:
Winter warm Drive.
Donate that old sleeping bag, pillows, coats, mufflers, gloves,hats, overshoes, thick sox, umbrellas, as well as the usual ongoing needs.

Donations may be left in the SX/Edges Barrel at Edges. Large items should be discussed with the EDGES staff before being dropped off.

ALL donations go to the SJ Women's Shelter, a non-profit center that is part of the INN Vision program to help those in need.

UPCOMING EVENTS:
ANNIVERSARY AT EDGES!!!! March 29th

MEMBERS FREE WITH CASE OF WATER
8pm-1am, doors close at 11pm
Click Here for Details
http://www.edges.biz

SOUTHERN CROSS MONTHLY
SUBSPACE MEETING
Tuesday, March 25, 2008, 7-9 pm
http://sxsubspace.blogspot.com/

MISS VICKI'S PHOTO PARTY
Friday April 11th, 2008
8pm-1am, Doors close at 11 pm
http://www.edges.biz
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FUTURE EVENTS:

SOUTHERN CROSS: VEGAS TAKEOVER
Weekend of May 16-18, 2008
Details available soon

YE OLDE RENNAISSANCE FAIRE
Annual Valley Fundraiser/ HUGE PLAY PARTY
Saturday, July 5, 2pm-3am
Click Here for Details

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MUNCHES & RECURRING EVENTS:

EVERY FRIDAY MUNCH IN SAN JOSE
@ THE PRUNEYARD 6-9PM
http://www.fridaymunch.blogspot.com/

EVERY WEDNESDAY MUNCH IN SUNNYVALE
@ Denny's 8-10PM
http://www.themunch.org/

EVERY MONDAY MUNCH IN SANTA CRUZ
@ Dennys 7PM
For more information, email BatMunch@castlewalker.com
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Southern Cross / Edges Charity Drop

For years, folks have collected Hotel Toiletries, house hold items, women's clothing, children's backpacks, sleeping bags, coats, canned goods, shoes, and a host of other useful items and donated them for the
San Jose Women's Shelter.

It is with great pleasure that Southern Cross announces a new, *streamlined* way to donate your gently used goods and new bath items.

Coming this week, Southern Cross teams with EDGES and permanently hosts our CHARITY DRIVE BARREL in Edges.

Dec 12th- Jan 15th:
Holiday toy drive!
While collecting coats and hats, cute little shampoos and books, please consider donating a
NEW TOY for a child for Christmas.

Donations may be left in the SX/Edges Barrel at Edges. Large items should be discussed with the EDGES staff before being dropped off.

ALL donations go to the SJ Women's Shelter, a non-profit center that is part of the INN Vision program to help those in need.

3d Annual Cookie Exchange

You want them.

They call to you in the night.

You have them in your bed.

You sneak them at work.

You lick your fingers over them.

You started in your childhood.

You are addicted.

Yep, it's COOKIES!!!!!

No-- not those cookies (although they ARE delectable)!

We can have him HELP us with the cookies!

The 3d annual Southern Cross/ Provert's Brunch Cookie exchange is coming to town!

Every year, those crazy usual suspects make up TONS of cookies-- and everyone trades! The more you bring, the more you take home.
Ok-- so the way it works is that you bring at least 3 dozen of any one kind of cookies--- we put them all on a table, and each person goes around picking up *other* cookies 3-4 at a time....

Oh sorry--- we all trade off taking turns. The more varieties we have, the more we all get to choose.
Everybody who would like to participate, get your cookies down to us for the * December 14th* munch!

Yes, we will accept *candy* too-- but only the good home make kind (FUDGE!). No M&M's kinda stuff:)
DO remember to bring your cookies in NICE display containers-- pretty plates, lovely trays.

Also bring some tupperware or other covered containers to take home all the GOODIES you will get!
This is the BEST way to enjoy the yummies of the year without spending HOURS in your kitchen. Just bake 1 or 2 batches of 3 dozen cookies and come share!

** Do you need to bring cookies to get cookies? YES! We love you-- and every year we manage to make a few folks happy who show up empty handed-- but please, BRING some goodies.

**Do you need to bake them yourself?




No. You can pick up bakery cookies if you get desperate-- but it truly does defeat the purpose. This is BAKING time- and we all want to share from our kitchens.
It goes without saying, NO packaged cookies please.

So get on an apron, grease yourself up, and wander into a hot room with a rolling pin and some sugar.
THEN get into the kitchen and make some COOKIES!!!!

Viper Whips

THIS lovely man has a page of GREAT links for single tails, information, performers, and teachers...
of course we all KNOW Viper is the best there is (his craftsmanship is outdone by NO ONE- )...
But it's nice to have some variety or a second option when you cannot afford the BEST.

http://home.comcast.net/~a-mcnibble/LinkIndex.HTML

Santa Little Helpers

Dec. 2nd-

Flogging the Elves: Making Presents with Loyd was a FUN day, and a good group.

We made own rubber floggers for gifts, and while it was a small turnout, we still netted $120.00 for
**EDGES**

Loyd, long time scene Master of impact terror scenes, has served as quartermaster, Outreach co-ordinator, toymaker, supports several bay area BDSM groups, handles music and large decorating chores, been secretary of smO board of directors, is a longstanding supporter of MAsT, a strong friend of SX, and currently is an elected board member of smO, munchmaster and current Spring Party lead.

He has played for years with valiant bottoms, hesitant newbies, and pain sluts of all varieties.

He lives a happy vanilla life when he isn't sadistically messing with scene folk.
He knows how to make a flogger and give us all giggles.

THANK YOU SCENE FOLKS for joining us and supporting our play space.

December 14th Photo Party!!!!

Miss Vicki's Photo Party
Orientation for recently joined members at 7:30pm

Miss Vicki's Photo Party at Edges Friday December 14th 8pm til 1am: doors close at 11pm
Edges, RSVP for directions
$20 for members, $25 for guests

Get creative! Pull out all the stops!
Bring your liquid latex, decorative needlework, singletail stripes, duct tape and more.
Takes photos of your AMAZING scene inside the dungeon.

Photography area: Only those able to be in photographs allowed. Located in the rear open area. Bring your own camera and capture those special or outrageous scene moments. NO video recording.

Non-photography area: Safe for play away from cameras. The social area and upstairs, front smaller play rooms will be for play WITHOUT photos so even if you can't be in pictures you can still come out and enjoy yourself, insured in discretion.



Edges
Silicon Valley Play Space: Private Rentals, Play Parties, Classes
http://www.edges.biz
408-496-1132


Membership Registrations are not sold at the door of Edges parties!
They can be purchased only at non-play, or educational events, and occasionally by special appointment.

To arrange an appointment please call (408) 496-1132 or write to events@edges.biz

The general public is NOT permitted into Edges events.
This is what keeps us truly private &protects our fun!

Please have your Edges membership card ready to show at the door.
If you are not an Edges member, you must RSVP as the guest of one,
sign a release form and present valid picture ID at the front desk.
All Guests Must RSVP or Arrive With Their Sponsoring Member
Adults 18+ only. No ID=No Entry. No Exceptions.

Please remember the limits of consent and respect.
No cell phones, cameras or recording devices allowed.

All Illegal Drugs/Sex Solicitations are Prohibited On Premises
(nor may anyone solicit/engage in "pay for play" at Edges)
~~

www.TheMunch.org has a whole new look. Come check it out. :)

And be sure to drop in to the Wed munch when you are in the area.

-Vicki-

=================================================================
Palo Alto / Sunnyvale Munches

Wednesday evenings
8:00 PM until 10 PM (or later)

Where:
Denny's: 408-245-7720
311 S Mathilda Ave
Sunnyvale CA 94086

www.TheMunch.org

Safety Record

MUNCH

No Injuries for
126 Days

Crack for Christmas

Just in time for overnight shipping, Southern Cross is pleased to have found.....

Southern Cross Crackers!

Those lovely novelty items for the holidays that bring a 'snap' to a festive gathering are a tradition we should not overlook.

They have some lovely items inside as well!:

Our discerning customers have virtually unlimited choices when it come to their Christmas Crackers options.

The Southern Cross Christmas Crackers program features 4 cracker sizes and 44 cracker designs with 12 categories of star rated gift contents:

Sterling Silver Jewellery, French Perfumes and Premium Gifts
Sterling Silver Jewellery to add a modern sensibility to special occasions. Freshwater Pearls the epitome of classic elegance.

They are always the perfect choice for so many occasions and are appropriate also for the office.

Endulge your holiday sense of wonder and air ship some fantasies.... have FUN!
http://www.southerncrosscrackers.com/Products/PageLINKS/SCC0%20Intro.htm

Play and Have FUN!

Southern Cross loves to have new faces as well as old friends come by anytime. Upcoming events (long versions below) include:

• EVERY FRIDAY Munch @ Pruneyard 6PM
• EVERY WEDNESDAY MUNCH IN SUNNYVALE
• ~~UPCOMING CPR CLASS!~~
• Dec 14th 3d Annual Cookie Munch with Miss Tender & shadow!
  
• Dec. 14th Miss Vicki's Photo Party
• December 18th ** SPECIAL DATE FOR SUBSPACE**
  
• NEW Year's With Edges
• Every Monday 7pm Santa Cruz Munch at Dennys
  

Southern Cross is a nationally recognized BDSM group that provides public access munches and classes (benefiting our local dungeon), and kinky "Field Trips", for both newbies and old-schoolers alike. We also try to give back to our community by hosting charity events (last year we raised over $5,000.00), public and private BDSM parties, offer scrumptious kinky catering, lead discussion & support groups, and assist in setting up private mentoring.

Our founders and staff each contribute their time, energy, and financial backing without compensation to the idea that public BDSM is a communal effort and we are all 'family'. We are a free group with no membership or dues. Founded Jan 2004, we enter our 5th year focused on supporting our local dungeon, running permanent collections for charity, supporting other kink groups, both locally and nationally - and continuing a great tradition of HAVING FUN!

The Perfect Leather Toys- Viperworks

**Christmas is COMING! ORDER NOW!**

One of the most gifted folks in our area is the accomplished
Viper,
owner of Viper Leatherworks who hand crafts leather toys, collars, restraints, and a host of accessories like this 8 foot bullwhip.
His home page http://viper_001.home.mindspring.com/leatherworks2_001.htm is filled with the most exquiste leather goods available in the USA, all custom made to order.
Orders should be made in advance, as each item takes up to 6 weeks to create.



Custom colors are often possible, and matched sets of 2-6 items are available.





Each item is custom made using the most durable quality materials and taking the time to ensure perfection. 24 plait items of up to 10 feet long are available from this master craftsman.

Deposits are required for most orders and all inquries can be made through his email at:
Viper_001@mindspring.com

Santa's Little Helper

Dec. 2nd-

Flogging the Elves: Making Presents

Come join Loyd

as he shows you His creative side!

Make your own rubber floggers for gifts- or yourself!

Sunday, Dec.2nd 1-4 pm at EDGES.
www.edges.biz info
$15.00 Edges members,
$20.00 per person non-members (materials included in price).

Loyd, long time scene Master of impact terror scenes, has served as quartermaster, Outreach co-ordinator, toymaker, supports several bay area BDSM groups, handles music and large decorating chores, been secretary of smO board of directors, is a longstanding supporter of MAsT, a strong friend of SX, and currently is an elected board member of smO, munchmaster and current Spring Party lead.

He has played for years with valiant bottoms, hesitant newbies, and pain sluts of all varieties.

He lives a happy vanilla life when he isn't sadistically messing with scene folk.

Upcoming

Southern Cross loves to have new faces as well as old friends come by anytime. Upcoming events (long versions below) include:

• EVERY FRIDAY Munch @ Pruneyard 6PM
• EVERY WEDNESDAY MUNCH IN SUNNYVALE
• December 2nd- Floggers From Santa with Loyd
• DECEMBER MAST Moves to Second Sunday 12-9
• COOKIE MUNCH Dec. 14th: Tender and shadow co-host
• ~~UPCOMING CPR CLASS!~~
  
• Dec. 14th Miss Vicki's Photo Party
• December 18th ** SPECIAL DATE FOR SUBSPACE**
  
• NEW Year's With Edges
  

Southern Cross is a nationally recognized BDSM group that provides public access munches and classes (benefiting our local dungeon), and kinky "Field Trips", for both newbies and old-schoolers alike. We also try to give back to our community by hosting charity events (last year we raised over $5,000.00), public and private BDSM parties, offer scrumptious kinky catering, lead discussion & support groups, and assist in setting up private mentoring.

Our founders and staff each contribute their time, energy, and financial backing without compensation to the idea that public BDSM is a communal effort and we are all 'family'. We are a free group with no membership or dues. Founded Jan 2004, we enter our 5th year focused on supporting our local dungeon, running permanent collections for charity, supporting other kink groups, both locally and nationally - and continuing a great tradition of HAVING FUN!

Goodbye Dear Sir

One of the most gifted folks in our area is the accomplished
Viper,
owner of Viper Leatherworks who hand crafts leather toys, collars, restraints, and a host of accessories like this 8 foot bullwhip.
His home page http://viper_001.home.mindspring.com/leatherworks2_001.htm is filled with the most exquisite leather goods available in the USA, all custom made to order.










Dear Sir made a "thing" for Master AJ last year similar to this great flogger's colors.

He has taken the time to take care of HUNDREDS of folks in the scene, and He and bluelace- jackqueline- His lovely partner, wife and slave, mentor many people quietly and with joy.







They are one of the Northern California shining lights of M/s, take their world very seriously, and are looked up to by many of us.














It is with great personal sadness that We say goodbye to them both as they move on with their life journey far from this place.

They will be creating new memories in Texas, and once settled, Roy will be finishing the many orders He has already started before they begin taking new whip orders.


email them at:
Viper_001@mindspring.com

Naughty Cookies

Swedish cookie cutters with a great theme!

http://www.pipparkakan.se/PIPPARKAKAN_ENG.html

THIS great company sells the most adorable cookie cutters....

and carries "Lovesick Recipes" too:)

Munches are strange

This is your brain on Loyd.





We had WAY too much of a good time with the squishy brains and bits- right up until things got seriously weird.

We tend to be low key, gentle people.

Who love learning about aliens and like touching things.

We have learned fisting techniques.

We have gotten a bit too close to some of the toys however.

Before the great brain destruction incident, we enjoyed the squishy moments.





Every munch is unique, laid back, and full of fun and chat. No cliques, no politics, just a great place to let your hair down and get ready to be kinky for another weekend!

DUNGEON MONITOR ASSOCIATION PRESENTS:
Inclusive DMA Training Classes for any/all genders


Sunday, November 25th, 2007
Doors open at 11:30am, Class Runs: 12pm until 5pm
Edges in the South Bay SF(RSVP for address: DM@edges.biz )

New DM's $20.00
DM Refresher class $10.00
DMA Pin $ 5.00

RSVP's are now being taken for both full and refresher course training at
Edges in the South Bay.
Questions: DM@edges.biz or call 408-496-1132

Do not will this opportunistic class! It is appropriate for any persons whom
would like to become certified DMs, those that have not used their skills
for an extended period of time, or anyone whom would like a refresher
course.

This is an open invitation to all who are interested in being of service to
the Leather community. Edges parties are often in need of trained dungeon
monitors. Edges will be hosting a Dungeon Monitor Association class on
November 24th, Saturday. This class will cover the fundamentals of safe
play, being able to determine when play is unsafe, emergency intervention,
and more.

We recommend that those who take the class have at least a years experience
in BDSM/Leather play at public dungeon parties in order to have the
requisite experience for the class. However, those who have become quickly
adept at play and are interested in community service are encouraged to
attend.

Dungeon Monitors are "dungeon life guards": available to lend a helping hand
if needed in a scene, but otherwise always in the background, observing, and
staying out of the way of safe players. And then in the rare occasion that a
truly dangerous situation occurs... ready and trained to help.

This class will be taught by Daddy Alex, co-founder of the Citadel and
liaison to Edges Playspace, and Emeritus Board Member of the Dungeon
Monitors Association.

Please take advantage of this class. The cost is $20. Reservations are
encouraged. You will get so much more out of the Leather Community when you
put something into it yourself!!

"For those of you who've just tuned in, the Pinedale Shopping Mall has just been bombed with live turkeys. Film at eleven."

"While the senator denied he was intoxicated, he could not explain his nudity".

(radio blurp from opening of WKRP).








Times may change, but nothing really changes, yet every year as the end of November approaches, i think of Les Nessman.


Les, our intrepid radio newsman, reports on the WKRP "Turkey Drop" at the local radio station, a promotion idea of the station's slightly inept but well meaning owner, Mr. Carlson.

Carson and the station's sales rep, Herb Tarlek, have a "surprise" for everyone

"All it's gonna take is your complete co-operation, absolute secrecy, and twenty live turkeys "
and have taken a helicopter over the local shopping center.

Les Nessman, 3 time winner of the Buckeye Silver Sow News award for outstanding farm journalism, has been dispatched to report -without knowing what they have planned.

" It's a helicopter, and it's coming this way. It's flying something behind it, I can't quite make it out, it's a large banner and it says, uh - Happy... Thaaaaanksss... giving! ... From... W.... ... K... ... R... ... P!!"

The ensuing chaos as the turkeys are released ~ "No parachutes yet. Can't be skydivers... I can't tell just yet what they are, but - Oh my God, Johnny, they're turkeys!! Johnny, can you get this? Oh, they're plunging to the earth right in front of our eyes! One just went through the windshield of a parked car! Oh, the humanity! The turkeys are hitting the ground like sacks of wet cement! Not since the Hindenberg tragedy has there been anything like this! " ~ is impossible to ignore.


Station disc jokey Dr. Johnny Fever responds to Les's on air reports~
"Les? Are you there? Les isn't there. (composing himself) Thanks for that on-the-spot report, Les, and for those of you who just tuned in, the Pinedale Shopping Mall has just been bombed with live turkeys. Film at eleven. "

Poor Les, animal over, farm reporter, and rather 'quirky' person, refuses to stop broadcasting, even in the ensuig panic.Returning to the station, he gets to try explaining things:
Venus: "Les! Are you okay?"
Les: "I don't know. A man and his two children tried to kill me. After the turkeys hit the pavement, the crowd kind of scattered, but some of them tried to attack me! I had to jam myself into a phone booth! Then Mr Carlson had the helicopter land in the middle of the parking lot. I guess he thought he could save the day by turning the rest of the turkeys loose. It gets pretty strange after that."



It gets pretty strange AFTER THAT???

"As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly."

Arthur Carlson's explanation for the disaster.

Suspend Your Disbelief

Southern Cross thanks TRAVIS for a great class Friday night:
"The Devil is in the details.."
A wonderful evening of info on suspension, safety points, evaluating areas, playing with straps, chains, special gear (that straight jacket was YUMMY warm!), and lots of inside info on great scenes with several other rope specialists. We thank them all for coming and making the Q & A so much fun!

Travis is a local scene player who is an expert with electrical toys, bondage, suspension, and scenes that require the art of theatrical accoutrement's to add the flourish of fine art to his play. He is a regular contributor to several blog sites and BDSM sites including www.seriousbondage.com
He has been a long time supporter of the public scene and volunteers endlessly to help out many of the BDSM orgs. in the area.

November 10th- HOGTIES!

Thank you to Jay Wiseman and the folks who came down Saturday afternoon for the class on Hogites... unfortunately, the class was canceled due to low attendance.

We want to thank Jay for his time and *travel*, and hope that we can offer this class at a later date when more folks can attend.
To all of you out there, please let us know what we can do to offer classes at times that work for you.

Get Your Kitchens Ready to Rumble

Halloween- "A Piece Of The Action"

We set the stage for a Halloween extravaganza of bathtub gin, rich flappers and poor farmers, violin cases and pinstripe suits.
Gangsters and their flapper friends and a whole host of characters from a time gone by.
The mobsters arrived right on time....

We had a bouncer at the door, and after "Joe sent me" was spoken, they were checked for weapons.
They had lots of them!

While the crowds drank at the bar in the speakeasy-
watching vintage porn films accompanied by live piano
(nothing like a piano player in a whore house!- Thank you E.N.),
we offered platters of treats from mother nature's best-
Pumpkin, squash, acorns, zucchinis, baked and covered in various goodies, set in edible bites or sliced and heated.

Our crack catering folks went CRAZY back there again... cookies and FONDUE, bubbly and veggies, pralines and walnuts and blueberry tartlets, peanut butter goodness and bite sized treats in whipped cream.
We always over do it!

Photos were available for the party folks to remember the finery and the FLASH....

The skeletons of the dead raced across the midwest even as Bonnie and Clyde drove their gang to excess... and paid the price in blood.

The Purple Gang arrived right on time, Al Capone made his entrance, and of course, the guys and dolls that came to PLAY!

Of course, deciding where to play was not easy... there was a recreating of a kinky version of the St. valentine's Day massacre on the bathroom hall wall...

The entire Oaklanhoma dustbowl upstairs in the big room (complete with animal skeletons and piles of dust!), and King Tut's tomb in the front bathroom.

Oh-- and we found the Lindberg baby and the ladder the kidnappers used!

Then of course there was the St. James Park lynching in San Jose.... nothing like taking the kidnappers right outta the jail! We want to thank everyone that came out and helped decorate, put out information, cleaned up, COOKED, got there early and gave us support, and all you fine people that continue to remember to support EDGES-- without that, we don't have a local dungeon to play in... and that is what is the MOST important thing. Our sincere thanks to Ali and Alex for allowing us to turn their space into the gangster era. It was fun.

Pole Dance

Our local dungeon HAS a POLE...

Have you ever considered this????

Shakin' Submissives

Soooooo

Last night we had SUBSPACE meeting at our local dungeon.

We also had some folks playing upstairs.

And then a 5.6 quake hit just 6 miles from our location.

One moment, we were sitting there talking about what it's like in scene-- and the next, we all thought... for a split second... that the people upstairs were:
1: Running the length of the building.
2: Elephants.

That lasted about 1/4 of a second-- and then the building MOVED.
Here in Calif, it's a freight train kind of effect- like when a big truck runs by a small old house-- only it gets worse and worse and worse within a split second and things MOVE.

Yes, we all got out AOK. Yes, we had one gal that is now no longer a "virgin" to quakes.
Nothing was damaged in the building-- but in that moment, as we got everyone outside of the cinderblock 2 story building in case that was just 'the beginning'-- or more damage had been done than we thought- i was really glad i was a DMA graduate.

i am trained as a first responder-- i am an ex-cop and did a decade in uniform. i have the basics drilled into me about safety, aftershocks, gas mains, traffic, etc.
BUT* that only goes so far.

As the building was settling and everyone downstairs was moving (fast) outside to the open parking lot, my FIRST shout upstairs was "ARE YOU OK or TIED UP?".

Not calling for someone to just *come down*. Finding out if i needed to grab either the bolt cutters or the emergency scissors (as well as the flashlight in case we lost power) and assessing what i had going on upstairs.
Was it 1 person immobile?
Were either of them not aware of the situation?
What PART of the upstairs were they responding from?
Did i have to go upstairs ASAP and assist someone (and maybe put myself and /or another helper in danger?) or were the people upstairs capable of responding instantly, with clear voices, in a scene that was not restricting either of them, and could they gather clothes and get downstairs in less time than it would take me to get upstairs and GET THEM down?

Having done the DMA training and spoken with others about their positions on emergency response in dungeons, i was in a much better position to assess both what MIGHT happen, what WAS happening, and to easily recognize what MIGHT need to happen.

i know how to get a submissive off a cross or down out of suspension even if they are bigger than me, even if they are not conscious, and alone if necessary. That is not the kind of thing the PD taught me. i know where all the emergency supplies and such are in my dungeon. That is something that the average player doesn't. i know how to give immediate first aid to people caught in play during an emergency, and the things that make a difference from care given if one were not playing.

As it turned out, the folks upstairs were fast and smart, and grabbed what they needed and left the rest for a return trip today to pick it up. So did i--- i had a large pile that needs to be retrieved today. But in the dark, out in an industrial area with unknown sites around us using natural gas, tanks, and heavy machinery, with 6 other people to worry about, in a cinderblock building that i have no knowledge about it's earthquake safety (is it reinforced? Does it have gas or electrical connection issues? What's in the part i haven't seen?), the better part of valor is to evacuate the building and not go back in-- after shocks change the situation, and i have been in more than one quake where the temblors that injured folks were not the severe 5 point plus ones-- they were the smaller ones that "broke the proverbial camel's back".

Better safe than sorry. Overkill is a good thing when it is not just your own safety you are worried about. Training makes a HUGE difference. DMA classes are not just for DM's, not just for tops, not just for other people. Get some first responder training, take a DMA class when it's offered, and be smart. You never know when you might be the only person available in a fire or other natural disaster that can help get others out of a building, out of harms way... or off that St. Andrews Cross.

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November 10th- HOGTIES!

TIME SHIFT!

Please forgive the list lady's finger foray-- TIME IS 4 PM to 7:30!

Southern Cross is happy to host a special bondage class for all those rope enthusiasts out there-- HOGTIES!

Saturday, November 10th, Jay Wiseman presents a FOUR HOUR class/workshop on hogties- the way to a man's heart is through the square knot.
4-7:30 PM
Edges Members $15 Guests $20
Light snacks provided.

Jay Wiseman has over 30 years of experience in kink and was one of the early
pioneers and builders of the BDSM community in the San Francisco area. He
continues to be heavily involved, both locally and nationally, as an SM author,
educator, mentor, workshop leader, expert witness, and activist. He is the author
of the frequently recommended book "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" and the
founder of the publishing company that later became Greenery Press. His most
recent book, “The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies” provides
crucial information to both players and dungeon monitors. A former ambulance
crewman with years of experience, and recipient of the highest Red Cross
commendation for lifesaving action, Jay also teaches classes in basic and
advanced emergency medical care for kink clubs and other groups. He recently
graduated from law school. His areas of special interest include providing legal
support for alternative communities and conflict resolution.

November 9th Photo Party!!!!

Miss Vicki's Photo Party
Orientation for recently joined members at 7:30pm

Miss Vicki's Photo Party at Edges Friday November 9th 8pm til 1am: doors close at 11pm
Edges, RSVP for directions
$20 for members, $25 for guests

Get creative! Pull out all the stops!
Bring your liquid latex, decorative needlework, singletail stripes, duct tape and more.
Takes photos of your AMAZING scene inside the dungeon.

Photography area: Only those able to be in photographs allowed. Located in the rear open area. Bring your own camera and capture those special or outrageous scene moments. NO video recording.

Non-photography area: Safe for play away from cameras. The social area and upstairs, front smaller play rooms will be for play WITHOUT photos so even if you can't be in pictures you can still come out and enjoy yourself, insured in discretion.



Edges
Silicon Valley Play Space: Private Rentals, Play Parties, Classes
http://www.edges.biz
408-496-1132


Membership Registrations are not sold at the door of Edges parties!
They can be purchased only at non-play, or educational events, and occasionally by special appointment.

To arrange an appointment please call (408) 496-1132 or write to events@edges.biz

The general public is NOT permitted into Edges events.
This is what keeps us truly private &protects our fun!

Please have your Edges membership card ready to show at the door.
If you are not an Edges member, you must RSVP as the guest of one,
sign a release form and present valid picture ID at the front desk.
All Guests Must RSVP or Arrive With Their Sponsoring Member
Adults 18+ only. No ID=No Entry. No Exceptions.

Please remember the limits of consent and respect.
No cell phones, cameras or recording devices allowed.

All Illegal Drugs/Sex Solicitations are Prohibited On Premises
(nor may anyone solicit/engage in "pay for play" at Edges)
~~

Suspend Your Disbelief

Suspension Bondage- the specialty of so many bondage enthusiasts, the fantasy of so many bondage lovers, the more difficult of all the rope arts, fascinates everyone.

Do you love to tie them up- and watch them hang?
Do you need to feel the weight of the world *gone* as you sway in the wind?

Come join TRAVIS at EDGES on FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 9th from 6-8 pm for a special
SUSPENSION BONDAGE class:

"The Devil is in the details.."

Suspension bondage class
with a focus on site and site prep.
Suspension bondage, no matter how you do it, is a gear intensive and venue specific type of play. This class will focus mostly on the preparation of the site and basic rigging concepts. This is not to mean it's a beginners class. We all know that familiarity breeds contempt, and suspension bondage is not excused from this time proven proverb. One can become so enraptured by the gear one owns, so determined to set it up, that it's often forgotten that just because you bought the gear, brought the gear, practiced with the gear.. that after all that.. there are venues where you simply can NOT set up the gear.

This is a class that will help the suspension bondage enthusiast understand the "Make-do's and Make-dont's" of setting a suspension scene in an area not SPECIFICALLY designed for suspension bondage. The class will feature some technique and a little demonstration, but will focus mostly on what points we should and should not use for the base rigging.. and why. I'm big on helping people understand .. "why".

Hope to see you at the class.

Travis

Travis is a local scene player who is an expert with electrical toys, bondage, suspension, and scenes that require the art of theatrical accoutrement's to add the flourish of fine art to his play. He is a regular contributor to several blog sites and BDSM sites including www.seriousbondage.com
He has been a long time supporter of the public scene and volunteers endlessly to help out many of the BDSM orgs. in the area.
"Growing up in the San Francisco Bay area, I was very fortunate to have outlets for my sexuality that many are not privy to while in their formative years. I can’t imagine what would have happened, had I grown up in a small Midwestern town with the thoughts I was having. Starting around age 16, I began ushering my girlfriends into my little world. At that point, I knew from the photos of Irving Claw and others
that this lifestyle was out there, but it wouldn’t be until much later that I learned just how pervasive it is in society. Beginning simply enough by handcuffing my girlfriend’s hands behind the seat of my car when we went for a drive, or restraining them on and to the bed during sex, the wheels were set in motion, and the momentum of those early years has only increased as my passion for this lifestyle grows."

We are pleased and blessed to know such a wonderful twisted man.

Erotic Car Seat Seduction Massager
Helps You Arrive at Work Totally Refreshed

Ladies, are you getting bored on your way to work?
Commute invarious stages of ecstasy with this
Erotic Car Seat Seduction Massager,
letting four areas of your posterior know
in no uncertain terms that there's a whole lot of shakin' going on.
Plug it into your car's cigarette lighter,
and as you manipulate its handheld intensitycontrol,
it'll keep "your most treasured pleasure points"
alive and kicking until you arrive safely at the salt mines.
Sure, there are plenty of car seat massagers on the market,
but this £59.99 ($124)contraption is explicitly designed
for m'lady's pleasure. Now you can add one more
distraction to your morning commute in addition
to talking on the phone, eating breakfast, listening to
the radio and applying makeup: taking a ride on the
hootchie koochie vibration train. Just let us know
which highway you take to work before you purchase
one of these poontang shakers, and we'll alter our route
accordingly.

Party on Friday

Those munches are pretty strange on Fridays of late~

The Usual Suspects seem to be getting into all kinds of fun and games.*

(Discussion- 6 Dildos will get you arrested in Texas, but a gun won't....

"But a gun that shoots dildos is OK, and God knows you can have as much ammunition as you want!")






This is your brain on Fridays.

(Talking about those strange people:
"Bless her heart, she is out there where the busses don't run").

Innuendo-
the new Lube for Men

"Southern Cross - We are synchronized chaos".

This is your brain on Fridays at the munch.







"We're not rotary- we're twisted!".

Muppett Fisting

"Take your greasy Jesus and get out!"

Things we find in our pants.









* All items direct quotes from Fall '07 munches.

Get a Hard On for Cutting

OK, it's THAT time of year again!

The 3d annual Southern Cross Pumpkin Carving Contest!




Friday the 26th, we host another pumpkin killing, stabbing, hacking mess of fun at Hobees with the Usual Suspects Munch!




THIS YEAR- we are offering a FREE PASS to the Saturday Halloween Party at EDGES!!!!




Come on in with a pumpkin, bring your favorite knives (you all have KNIVES, don't cha?), and some serious kinky cutting attitude!




We will start cutting the moment folks are ready.... and judge the entrants at 8:15 pm.




ALL the pumpkins will get their NIGHT OUT and be on display at EDGES on Saturday the 27th at the COSTUME PARTY.

Don't worry if you have no talent- we THRIVE on that!

Don't worry if you have no pumpkin.... we probably will have a couple extra (but don't COUNT on it!)


Don't worry if you think it's childish-- it IS!




So come on down to the Friday Munch (see www.southerncrossmunch.blogspot.com )








And get some hard on for a squishy center.




































Yes, pumpkins died making this.

EDGES

(Mailing list information, including unsubscription instructions, is located at the end of this message.)

November 2007 http://www.edges.biz

In this issue:

• Nov 2nd, Friday - Members Monthly Birthday Party

• Nov 3rd , Saturday -SCCLA Annual Leather Weekend

• Nov 4th , Sunday - Sugar & Spice Age Play Party

• VOLUNTEER POSITIONS AVAILABLE

• Shop Edges - Show your pride

Nov 2nd , Friday - Monthly Birthday Party

7:30pm Orientation
8pm, doors close at 11pm
$20 members, $25 for guests
$5 if your birthday is in November!

Open Party for members and their guests. Give yourself a break after a long work week and relax at the dungeon. Stop by to get your leathers polished or just to enjoy the company of friends.

If your birthday falls in this month, please visit with us for a $5 play party. and join us in celebrating our members! Cake provided, though you're welcome to bring party supplies and help make it your own!

RSVP required for guests unless accompanied by their sponsored member.

Nov 3rd, Saturday - SCCLA Leather Weekend

YOU WANT TO CHECK THIS OUT!

Community Fair Noon- 5pm
Tamale Dinner: 5-6:30pm
Fantasy Show: 7-8:30pm
Play Party: 9:15pm-1am

Advanced Purchase Weekend Packages and Play Party Only tickets are available at Frantix (https://www.frantix.net/frantix-s/cgi-bin/SCCLA07.cgi)

Those wishing to attend just the play party who are not members of SCCLA or Edges MUST purchase tickets in advance!

For more details on vendors, classes, performers, etc please visit: http://www.sccleather.org/w/LeatherWeekend

Intrigued? Do you think age play parties are all about adult babies and diapers? Well we have news for you! Stop by and check out this fun filled energy as we release our inner child and enjoy the laughter and joy within.

* Costume Show and Tell *
KARNIVAL ‘PENNY’ GAMES:
Jelly Belly Guessing Game, Musical Chairs, Bobbing for Apples, Mummy Wrapping Contest.
Bring in your favorite scary short stories

Edges Playspace is seeking YOUR HELP to fill semi-permanent (6 months at a time) VOLUNTEER POSITIONS. We want to remain here for you! Please consider the following positions and if you or someone you know might be able to help feed the heart of our public playspace.

DM SERGEANT-
Benefits include 25 party entrances free, Official Edges polo shirt, personal edges email, working with a great team of dungeon monitors and more.
Responsibilities include recruiting and scheduling Dungeon Monitors for particular events (not all parties). Must have been active in the public scene for more than two years. Must have taken the DMA certification course or will do so on November 24th, and able to work with mailing list managers (we will provide training).

DOMESTIC GURU-
Benefits include ALL Edges party entrances free, Official Edges polo shirt, personal edges email, working with a great team of community volunteers and more.
Responsibilities include recruiting and scheduling help for twice monthly cleaning of the space. Must have a good sense of order, tidiness, and cleanliness. Will need to come by for a thorough orientation about Edges supplies. Able to work with mailing list managers (we will provide training).

FLYER DISTRIBUTION-
Benefits include 20 party entrances free, ability to network with some fabulous kink and sex positive spaces and vendors in the area.
Responsibilities include getting flyers (either personally or through other volunteers) to San Francisco, Santa Cruz, Leather events and more.

FLYER CREATION-
Benefits include 20 party entrances free, increased portfolio and experience
Responsibilities include the creation of Photoshop artwork in the form of flyers for either online distribution or for Edges to order. This would be for occasional events, not all parties.

EDUCATION DIRECTOR-
Benefits include ALL Edges party entrances free, Official Edges polo shirt, personal edges email, working with wonderful educators from all over.
Responsibilities include recruiting and scheduling education classes twice per month. Experience in the Leather scene and with outreach in particular preferred but not required. A passion for learning a must!

PARTY HOSTS-
Benefits include hosting your own event with all of your friends! Bringing together our Leather community, a free rental with a percentage of the PROCEEDS GOING TO THE COMMUNITY GROUP OF YOUR CHOICE!
Responsibilities include an orientation to go over the Edges Event Manual. Covering event volunteers, theme and helping with marketing.

PROJECT MANAGER-
Benefits include 30 party entrances free, Official Edges polo shirt, personal edges email, working with a wonderful team of volunteers
Responsibilities include taking on designated research and scheduling tasks for projects form large to small. A good head for organization a must.

Please contact me directly if you are interested in any of these positions or have questions. Let us know why you think this might be a good position for you to take on!

--Miss Ali
ali@edges.biz

CHECK OUT THE NEW LOOK

OF THE EDGES WEBSITE

http://www.edges.biz

Edges PRIDE!

Purchase online:
• Edges womens thong
• Black ballcap
• Edges baseball jersey for men or women

Purchase at the Dungeon:
• Square Edges magnet
• Edges leather run pin
• Dildos for the fucking machine!
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Leather weekend 07

SCCLA: Tools of the Trade Tickets! Nov. 2-4 SJ

The Santa Clara County Leather Association Proudly Presents:
Leather Weekend '07: "Tools of the Trade" November 2-4, 2007

Friday: Meet and Greet at Renegades Bar in San Jose!

What are your tools? Are you a cowboy? A fireman? Is construction more your speed? Wear your gear and enter our "Gear Up" contest, emceed by the lovely Lady Hilary!

Saturday: A full day of happenings at Edges in Santa Clara!

A vendor fair brimming over with some of our favorite tools and toys, both silent and live auctions with even more gear to buy-with the proceeds going to worthwhile organizations, a delicious meal, fabulous entertainment, and a hot play party! What's not to love?


Sunday: Wind down from the weekend's excitement at brunch. The Cardinal has a brunch buffet second to none, so you can have a leisurely meal with friends and leather loved ones.

For more information, please visit http://www.sccleather.org or to buy tickets go to http://www.frantix.net
Note: RSVP is required for the play party (for non-SCCLA or Edges members); buying your ticket in advance qualifies as an RSVP.
--
"The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences."
- Eleanor Roosevelt

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Tools of the Trade is SCCLA's annual Leather Weekend!

December 18th Subspace meeting

Come One Come ALL!

SPECIAL DATE FOR THE HOLIDAYS!!!!!!

December 18th 2007

EDGES

SX invites all the lovely giving halves of the Power Exchange to join us monthly for "SUBSPACE", our real time disucssion group for bottoms, subs, slaves, switches in bottom mode, and those who relate to this mindset. We share stories, ask for advice or suggestions, and hope to create a free safe space for people to verbalize their joys, fears, concerns, and get to network with other people in the scene. Find friends, mentors, and SUPPORT.

Boys and Girls are welcome to come, no cost, for an evening of discussion about WIITWD every month.

We do pass the hat to cover exspenses (or feel free to donate water!)

No one ever turned away for lack of funds.

Join us all the LAST TUESDAY of every month, 7-9 PM At EDGES, the dungeon for the South Bay (www.edges.biz).

Contact SouthernCross_Ca@sbcglobal.net and come join us!

RSVP to msbehavoyeur@yahoo.com or EDGES for directions.

Roaring Good Times

They Shoot Horses Don't They? . . . . well no, they don’t. But you’ll still enjoy the “Roaring 20’s” and a journey to America’s colorful past with the sights and sounds of a Gatsby-era tailgate party out of the back of a 1925 Packard. Flappers and gangsters, vaudeville and the Charleston, summers at Saratoga and Newport. This was the time of the Harlem Renaissance and the “lost generation” of American writers including Hemingway, Dos Passos, Gertrude Stein, Henry Miller and Fitzgerald. The Great Gatsby, The Waste Land, The Sun Also Rises, The Sound and the Fury are all novels that define the time.

Join Zelda and F. Scott in this unique perspective of Strawberry Hill. {Flapper Culture} The flapper, whose antics were immortalized in the cartoons of John Held Jr., was the heroine of the Jazz Age. With short hair and a short skirt, with turned-down hose and powdered knees - the flapper must have seemed to her mother (the gentle Gibson girl of an earlier generation) like a rebel. No longer confined to home and tradition, the typical flapper was a young women who was often thought of as a little fast and maybe even a little brazen.

Mostly, the flapper offended the older generation because she defied conventions of acceptable feminine behavior. The flapper was "modern." Traditionally, women's hair had always been worn long. The flapper wore it short, or bobbed. She used make-up (which she might well apply in public). And the flapper wore baggy dresses which often exposed her arms as well as her legs from the knees down. However, flappers did more than symbolize a revolution in fashion and mores - they embodied the modern spirit of the Jazz Age.

Fun, fashion, and glam.

For inspiration, here’s a sampling of Roaring 20’s fads & fashion:

Walking through history gives lots of views: